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[jk28]

Hey there

So sorry for your loss. I suffered 2 mmc's, found out I'd lost the first at 11+ wks, although the baby had gone at 6wks. I then had another, (2yrs later as undergoing fertility treatment) & the same happened, found out at 10+ wks, baby had also gone at 6wks. I'm now 29wks pregnant & still can't believe it!!

Good luck & take care
Jayne x

 

[kermie219]

I had a mc at 12weeks last March 23 and was pregnant again in August 8 (with the baby) I'm so sorry for your loss it is so so hard, still is for me a bit sometimes. Good luck! and don't worry many many many women go on to have perfectly healthy little baby's BIG HUGS!

 

[3boys]

i had a m/c in 2007, went on to have a healthy baby in 2009 and am now 30wks pregnant again.

 

[mama2connor]

I know i'm not in 3rd tri at the minute, but i lost my twin boys last february at 16 weeks 3 days, took us 11 month to conceive this time xx

 

[MUMMYBEAR6]

so sorry for your loss hunny but unfortunately 1 in 4 pregnancies does result in MC

some ladies never find out a reason why because docs dont know a reason why it happens,

i had 2 MC at 6 wks & 10 wks & a still birth at 39 weeks,

ave still no explanation as to why it happened,

Good luck & take care xxxx

 

[Sunflowers]

Mummybear that must have been so hard - at 39 weeks you must have thought you were really almost there..

OP - I had 3 mcs before falling pg with my first daughter and then pg again with this one! Keep going chuck, fingers crossed for a sticky bean for you..

 

[The Stick]

Hi

I had an early m/c in august and had my BFP in sept. So far I have been anxious all the way and I put that down to my m/c experience but have reached 30 weeks now.

I know how you must be feeling but as you see from the replies from the other ladies that many, many women go onto have a happy, healthy pregnancy after m/c. Good luck to you xxxxx

 

[terridee69]

I had a MC @ 6 weeks at the end of May and fell again in August, I am now here in 3rd tri. It is possible but not without worry .... Sorry for your loss

 

[birdy]

thank u ladies feel so much better now xxx

 

[Hoolie]

Very sorry to read about your loss.

I had a mmc found at my 12 week routine scan. Had an ERPC in August last year. Am now in third trimester after falling pregnant again in September.


A MC is a most terrible thing to get through. My sympathies to you and your partner.

Alex

 

[Widger]

I had 3 mcs before this baby and never thought I would get here but I have and still have to pinch myself. Having 3 mcs in a row isn't really common so there should be no reason for you to think that it will happen to you.

Sorry for your loss. You never forget but it does get easier xx

 

[birdy]

thank u ladies xxx

 

[birdy]

so how long was u told to wait before you tried again? x

 

[Ivoryapril]

My first pregnancy ended in a MMC in January last year. Happened around 8 weeks but didn't find out till 12 week scan then had a D&C. Work commitments meant we couldn't try again til August but fell pregnant first try again and here we are. I was so nervous in first tri and i still feel sad that our first LO wasn't healthy but you learn to move on and just be thankful. Make sure you give yourself the time you need. Good luck! x

 

[Sunflowers]

The recommendation is you wait for af at least - partly for dating and partly for you uterine lining to restablish post mc..

In reality, it's more a case of when you feel ready - for some women that's immediately and for others that's 6 months and both are absolutely fine..

 

[calilove77]

So sorry for your loss hun. We lost our LO's twin at 6+2 and it was the hardest thing we have ever been through. I have been a nervous wreck every step of the way. I am so grateful to finally be in the 3rd tri! I cannot wait til she is in my arms...(although then I'm sure I will worry about other things!) Take care of yourself! Fell free to PM me if you need to talk!

 

[birdy]

thank u very much i feel so much better x

 

[birdy]

bump x

 

[maybebaby3]

i had 2 m/c b4 having my 1st child. i pretty much got pregnant straight after the m/c both times. good luck xxx

 

[birdy]

thanks x