Pointless...rant... need to get it out!

[lou_w34]

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xxxx

 

[teal]

It's annoying that he thinks it's ok to swan in and out of her life when he feels like it. 10 weeks is a long time to not see his daughter wonder if he will show up to meet you.

That's great Scarlett is smiling at everyone but it would bother be aswell Why should he get to see her all smiles when he doesn't bother most of the time.

Sending you lots of hugs xx

 

[suzanne108]

I would be hoping she didnt do it too. Can you train her to cry?! Or just before you pass her to him pinch her ha (only joking!!!)

If she does it I would laugh and say 'she does that to everyone!'

Will he actually turn up anyway? Sounds like you haven't had much luck with him

 

[lou_w34]

It doesnt seem fair to me either

I dunno if he will, so far he hasnt bothered... but who knows whats goin though his head!

If she does i will deff say she does it to everyone! haha Shame you cant train them too cry lol

And WOW!!! look at your bump teal!!! any day now!!!! Soooo exciting!!

 

[suzanne108]

Even better say "she does it to everyone, she even did it to a tramp on the street/bus/train on the way here"

She sounds like a lovely friendly baby xx

 

[teal]

I agree about making a point of saying she does it to everyone. Don't want him feeling special or anything!!

Thanks Lou Still can't believe how close I am. Really hoping I don't go over due - don't think I could face another 3 weeks of pregnancy! xx

 

[MissEfendi]

He cannot make demands like that, You should stick to an agreement of when he can see her and if he does not make it, then tough he has to wait until it is the agreed time to see her again. I agreed every other fortnight with my ex, if he does not make it, he will have to wait until it is his time.

I know what you mean aboout the smiles and stuff, I do all the hard work with C so I don't want the ex to get to make him smile and laugh ( so far C has only cried and moaned when in his father;s presence) but one day he will smile and laugh for him and I will probably be quite upset only because he is useless and rubbish and he does not deserve to have the nice side of our son.

 

[lou_w34]

Ahhh i hope you dont either!! Im glad scarlett decided to come a tad early! I dont think i could have handled going over due! lol

And at the tramp comment lol! I should so use that! lol

Its hard to get him to stick to arranged dates.... he doesnt turn up, just assumes he can come when he wants, and im to much of a chicken to say "no, not untill you actually decide to bother comming" incase he gets all arsey! Anything for an easy life lol

xxx

 

[teal]

Thank you I'll keep you updated anyway!

I see what you mean about having an easy life It's bad that he thinks once every 10 weeks is enough. xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Lou there's an easy life and there's letting him walk all over you hun!

I would say to him look you can come see scarlett every wed in town for an hour or something like that. If he doesnt appear then he cant come on the fri or sat it will be next wednesday as arranged. basically i agree completly with MissEfendi im sure you have a lot of better things to do than wait on him.

Love the smiling at a tramp idea

 

[expecting09]

What is with it with him, seems like he's always letting you down. Stick up for yourself and Scarlett and next time you eventually meet up telling him how it's got to be!

 

[lou_w34]

Ahhhh i know your all right, why is it so much easier to give advice to other people? But when its you it seems harder? lol

I kept dreaming last night that we met up with him and he took her away from me

And what the hell do i do if he brings his new gf?? I have the right to walk away and tell him not untill he comes alone? dont i? Uhhhh!

xxx

 

[expecting09]

He wouldn't bring his new gf would he? Thats damn right rude!!! That would be the icing on the cake for me, I'd be outta there lol x

 

[lou_w34]

I dunno if he would dare, but i have a feeling that he is going to either bring her, or some of his friends... Im probably being paranoid, but i cant shake the feeling away that he will :S

I think it would be for me a bit aswell, at least i could leave as fast as i could run with a pram lol

xx

 

[teal]

Could you tell him before than you'd rather if was just you, him and Scarlett? I can imagine it's hard enough on you meeting with him nevermind with him bringing other people with him. I think he should be focussing on spending time with Scarlett and not introducing her to his friends

xx

 

[littlekitten8]

Urgh what an idiot. I would tell him he can't see her til his next allocated time. Did this with FOB twice now. And if he turns up with anyone else, get yourself outta there! Thats supposed to be his daddy daughter bonding time, not his daddy and gf/friends and daughter time! Grrrr! Hugs hun x