divadexie
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I have had enough of this
The doctor said he can't see a reason for it happening if it does not happen each time my son has a poo, as if he is at home, he will go to the loo. Ok sometimes he does not wipe properly and that makes a mess, but when he is at home usually gets to the loo.
A few times he has weed himself in the bathroom because he wasn't quick enough, but I know when he needs a wee he will wait until he is practically bursting if he is in the middle of doing something (he will either hold onto it or dance about) and I will have to tell him to go.
But he doesnt show signs when he needs to poop.
It has been near enough every day for the past 2 weeks. Minus the weekends.
He tells us it was because he didn't want to stop playing.
yesterday it was awful, he must have gone about lunch time because it was difficult to clean off!
So today I said to his teacher can she remind him to go.
He came home with clean pants on (a new pair) and he had needed to go to the loo when they were going to assembly. That I can understand a little because the whole class was walking down.
He has NEVER been BOTHERED by poo. All the other kids I know, get to a certain age and HATE the poo in the nappy, and will tell there parent and want it changed. Not my son, he never bothered about it.
I have tried ignoring it. Well, saying ''you must remember to poo in the toilet and him saying OK) He wasn't doing it as frequent then. But one day he caught me throwing his pants in the bin. (I am NOT putting poo in my machine! Lol) He was upset because they were his fave pants. He was screaming at me. So I loudly said ''Well dont poo in them then!!'
But then he seemed to think it was ok to poo and just throw the pants away and clean up! He was doing it more!
I started removing priveledges, like no desert, toys taken away, no teddies in bed.
Putting him on the step. Explaining over and over and over again that poo MUST go in the toilet and I don't like having to clean it up.
I have shouted at him for it.
Today he got a smack on the bum, not for the poo but for lying to me I cannot stand lying he came home and I asked if he had pooed today he said 'nope' but thats when I discovered the new pants.
I have now told him he will not be going to the museum in the holidays (he has been looking forward to it since about june) and he cant go swimming if he does poo in his pants.
I have explained that poo has germs and it can make him ill and it would make LO very sick.
I know it will not work. He just keeps saying OK when you tell him something but then does it again.
The doctor say he will grow out of it. When?? He has no idea.
It hasn't timed in with anything, there was no link between this starting and LO being born, coming home. Not with him starting school or anything. It is driving me BARMY! I normaly get funny about him going to stay with his gran but I cannot wait for a week of not having extra poo to clean up!
The doctor said he can't see a reason for it happening if it does not happen each time my son has a poo, as if he is at home, he will go to the loo. Ok sometimes he does not wipe properly and that makes a mess, but when he is at home usually gets to the loo.
A few times he has weed himself in the bathroom because he wasn't quick enough, but I know when he needs a wee he will wait until he is practically bursting if he is in the middle of doing something (he will either hold onto it or dance about) and I will have to tell him to go.
But he doesnt show signs when he needs to poop.
It has been near enough every day for the past 2 weeks. Minus the weekends.
He tells us it was because he didn't want to stop playing.
yesterday it was awful, he must have gone about lunch time because it was difficult to clean off!
So today I said to his teacher can she remind him to go.
He came home with clean pants on (a new pair) and he had needed to go to the loo when they were going to assembly. That I can understand a little because the whole class was walking down.
He has NEVER been BOTHERED by poo. All the other kids I know, get to a certain age and HATE the poo in the nappy, and will tell there parent and want it changed. Not my son, he never bothered about it.
I have tried ignoring it. Well, saying ''you must remember to poo in the toilet and him saying OK) He wasn't doing it as frequent then. But one day he caught me throwing his pants in the bin. (I am NOT putting poo in my machine! Lol) He was upset because they were his fave pants. He was screaming at me. So I loudly said ''Well dont poo in them then!!'
But then he seemed to think it was ok to poo and just throw the pants away and clean up! He was doing it more!
I started removing priveledges, like no desert, toys taken away, no teddies in bed.
Putting him on the step. Explaining over and over and over again that poo MUST go in the toilet and I don't like having to clean it up.
I have shouted at him for it.
Today he got a smack on the bum, not for the poo but for lying to me I cannot stand lying he came home and I asked if he had pooed today he said 'nope' but thats when I discovered the new pants.
I have now told him he will not be going to the museum in the holidays (he has been looking forward to it since about june) and he cant go swimming if he does poo in his pants.
I have explained that poo has germs and it can make him ill and it would make LO very sick.
I know it will not work. He just keeps saying OK when you tell him something but then does it again.
The doctor say he will grow out of it. When?? He has no idea.
It hasn't timed in with anything, there was no link between this starting and LO being born, coming home. Not with him starting school or anything. It is driving me BARMY! I normaly get funny about him going to stay with his gran but I cannot wait for a week of not having extra poo to clean up!