Popped my "cherry" after 4 years??

[ale]

Ok i had a bad night last night! Was so stressed out i got drunk and me and OH bd and i was on top and it was rough so when i went down he hit something, i think its called the hymen? The skin down there in the opening of your vagina, like when you put a tampon in and that skin or whatever is in the middle so it kind of divides it, idk how to explain it but ill find a pic of it online... well anyways we went to the floor and as i was going to get on top, he told me i was bleeding.... i was so drunk i started crying and i thought i was having a miscarriage but when i looked, that thing down there was split in half!! well when he first took my virginity, i didnt bleed.. so is that what its suppose to be when people bleed their first time??THIS ISNT OUR FIRST TIME THO lol!!


Found a pic! Mine looked like the second one....

https://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii123/Alemaris714/hymen.jpg

 

[Yatta89]

Hey I'm pretty sure that it wasn't your "cherry" that popped because you can't get pregnant if this is still in tact (from what I understand) and I see in your status that you had a miscarriage already? Not really sure what it was but if you aren't bleeding now I wouldn't worry too much about it

 

[aragornlover8]

Actually, I just found this on a site -
"Myth: I can't get pregnant if my hymen doesn't break.
Fact: Your hymen has nothing to do with your ability to get pregnant. As well, many girls' hymens don't break when they have sex for the first time (you might have also heard of this as "popping the cherry"). The hymen is a thin piece of skin that stretches across the opening of your vagina. There are different hymen sizes and openings while some girls may not even seem to have a hymen. Plus, your hymen can break from doing things like horseback riding or even riding your bike. If you have had unprotected sex, you can get pregnant, no matter what state your hymen is in." - https://www.pregnancy-info.net/teenpreg_myth_fact.html

I'm not sure if you broke your hymen or not. I think it is possible to have had sexual intercourse and not broken it. I wouldn't worry either way, unless the bleeding for some reason starts up again or if you have a lot of pain.

 

[ale]

im pretty sure it was my hymen.. i looked at it and it was split in half and that's where the bleeding is coming from... im still bleeding a little bit but only when i wipe! i read that i have to get surgery to get it removed!! it was such a pain in the butt having a seperate hymen.. it would always get in the way when we would bd and it would hurt!! so thank god! but i hope it can heal soon so i can start bd again and i dont miss OV!!!

 

[RedRose19]

ouchhh sounds sore...
from what you explained the blood etc it does sounds like the bleeding i got when i broke through the skin first time with oh lol

 

[Yatta89]

If you are still bleeding I would go see a doctor...it may be a little embarassing but you don't want to mess anything up. I'm not sure if it makes a difference on when your "cherry" pops but I'm pretty sure you shouldn't still be bleeding. But then again it could be different for everyone? Good Luck!

 

[ale]

you know what im thinking.... since the hymen its like a string of "tissue" and it cuts in half then the tissue must have bloodvessels, and that why its still bleeding... because when i wipe, the tissue has to touch it, so that might be it? i dont know...

 

[ale]

ouchhh sounds sore...
from what you explained the blood etc it does sounds like the bleeding i got when i broke through the skin first time with oh lol

look at the picture i posted and see which one yours looked like... because mine is just weird... like if i had 2 holes nut i really dont.. its just the hymen separating it... and just imagine it being split in half!! ahhhh

 

[RedRose19]

tbh i dont know lol.. i just remember it bleeding like you explained.. it was almost like getting af it was alot of blood

 

[ale]

yea it really was!! i was sooo scared! his penus was covered with blood, and i was too! we didnt even notice it til we switched positions...

 

[Yatta89]

I don't remember my "V" every looking like any of those pics except maybe the normal one. So I may be a bit confused lol. But I know that when I lost my virginity I only saw blood after I went to the bathroom when I wiped other than that I didn't bleed anymore. So like I said maybe everyone's different?

 

[Kaede351]

hmmm, I'm not sure! I don't remember ever getting this bleeding my first time... although... can it happen during oral sex? Cuz I remember with my first partner we were having oral (before I lost my v-plates) and he stopped and looked really guilty and said "you're bleeding". I got all embarassed because I thought it was AF... but thinking back now, it only lasted a little while. Maybe a day at most? So maybe that was it for me? It didn't even hurt too badly when we did dtd for the first time... just felt... wierd lol.

I'm sorry I can't help, I didn't even realise you could have sex and ur hymen not break! haha

XxX

 

[ale]

lol yea we have been having sex for four years without it breaking or me bleeding! UNTIL NOW!!! haha wow, 4 years later...

 

[ale]

so these are my opks so far! the last one is today's opk... took it at 9:30am

https://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii123/Alemaris714/051710-1041-1.jpg

 

[RedRose19]

id say thats definitly a positive you might be too sore to bd today tho..

 

[ale]

yea sucks for me huh.... ..... it looks real dark in the pic because i did auto fix to the picture but its not quite positive... it might be tommorow... now that its dried up, the line isnt as dark as the control line

 

[RedRose19]

dont do any bd today and maybe 2mor you will be ok to bd..

it will prob still be abit sore but not as much

 

[ale]

i hope so!!

this is what the pic looks like without fixing it

https://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii123/Alemaris714/withou.jpg

fixed

https://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii123/Alemaris714/withou-1.jpg


another of today's opk ( not fixed)

https://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii123/Alemaris714/051710-1051.jpg

fixed

https://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii123/Alemaris714/051710-1051-1.jpg

 

[molly85]

I'v bled a few times during sex I can't remember loosing my vaginity exactly too long ago but have found of yes has rough nails when laying the foundations he will snag the skin. If it don hurt to much I'd be straight backon the horse.

 

[Mrs.Ping]

when I lost my virginity I id not bleed at all it hurt like hell but no blood.I remember my bf at the time accused me of having sex already because I didn't bleed. I am on of the rare people born without a hymen!hope your vag feels better so u can bd tomorrow!