smile7060
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Hello! I am new here, and I am slightly worried and scared... so I decided to seek out some others who may have had the same situation or who can reassure me that I will be ok... and that there is hope.
So here is my story: Five years ago, in 2010 I contracted chlamydia from an ex boyfriend who was sleeping with others. As soon as I found out about the cheating, I never spoke to him again, and simply moved on with my life. Three months later I had met a wonderful person, and was just starting to date again. I did not yet know that I had contracted chlamydia, and unfortunately passed it to my new partner. Shortly after dating we discovered that infact something was a little off. I went to the Dr. and was diagnosed, and we were both treated with a few rounds of antibiotics. This is something that realistically should not have been a big deal. In the scheme of things I had only had this STI for three months, and had it treated as quickly as possible as soon as I knew.
Side note: The silver lining in all of this is that I am still with my partner five years later, and he is still just as wonderful
Even through it all, he was accepting, supportive and present.
You can imagine though that I was absolutely stressed to the max, and at this point not really sure where I stood with my body or with my new relationship... and so you could say I was literally sick with worry. About a week and a half after taking all of those antibiotics, I started to develop these weird symptoms of a bladder infection. It started gradually and then it hit me all at once. Of course, me already being out of my mind, I freaked some more, and went straight back to the Dr. He tested my urine and said " there is no bacteria". Ok, great (NOT) what the heck is going on. I told him my whole history of the STI and about the numerous rounds of antibiotics I was just previously on a week prior. He had no clue, and sent me home.
So I tried to remedy it myself, if there was no infection what the heck was happening to me? I tried to rest, drink lots of fluids etc... It continued to get worse, and I continued to go to the Dr. adamant that something was wrong. I desperately wanted them to find something. To make a long story short, I ended up in the hospital and had blood tests, pelvic exams, STI tests, UTI tests. Everything came back negative, including for Chlamydia at this point.
So again I was sent home still with these bladder symptoms similar to a UTI with out an infection present. At this point, I had understood that I had stressed myself out so badly that there was a good chance that it was significantly adding to my condition, so I decided to do some research and get down to the bottom of it. I changed my diet, and I was eventually tentatively diagnosed with a condition called Interstitial Cystitis. Which is a condition that has similar symptoms to a UTI but no bacteria. I was given medication to take, and after a couple months my medication was working quite well, I started to have a decrease in symptoms and went back to work.
Fast forward five years, I have been on this medication for almost 4.5 years, and generally I do not have any problems whatsoever with my bladder unless I eat something or drink something that makes it upset (kind of like irritable bowel syndrome). Alcohol and coffee especially.
So my concern: The last week my partner and I have actually discussed having kids next FALL. I am SO excited, as being a mum is the most important thing to me in the world...but I am now petrified that my previous issues could have damaged my fertility. I keep reading on the internet ( which I know isn't always good) that you can have scarring from an untreated chlamydia infection and sometimes can have "silent PID" or pelvic inflammatory disease. I have never had any of the symptoms of PID that are overt, like bleeding, severe abdominal pain, discharge, fever, etc. The overt symptoms when you think of a pelvic infection. I was also checked numerous times for PID back when I was having trouble with my bladder and told that " I would have known if I had PID". Well here I am now again, freaking out that I have still managed to have scarring that will prevent me from having my own family.
I think the reason why it bothers me so much is that I had SO much trouble with my bladder, that I think " perhaps THAT was PID?" Was my body trying to tell me this by having symptoms in my urinary tract rather than in my uterus, but still had an effect on my uterus? Did the Dr. miss it every single time? I like to think that is probably not likely.
I have been perfectly fine for almost five years and realistically have had no anxiety about any of it, just chalked it up to something that was unfortunate that happened, and I have been lucky enough to have a fairly normal life with a really great partner. It is only after our conversation about having a family that my mind started to do flips. Am I just over reacting?
Is there anyone who has had this STI and had successful pregnancies just fine?
So here is my story: Five years ago, in 2010 I contracted chlamydia from an ex boyfriend who was sleeping with others. As soon as I found out about the cheating, I never spoke to him again, and simply moved on with my life. Three months later I had met a wonderful person, and was just starting to date again. I did not yet know that I had contracted chlamydia, and unfortunately passed it to my new partner. Shortly after dating we discovered that infact something was a little off. I went to the Dr. and was diagnosed, and we were both treated with a few rounds of antibiotics. This is something that realistically should not have been a big deal. In the scheme of things I had only had this STI for three months, and had it treated as quickly as possible as soon as I knew.
Side note: The silver lining in all of this is that I am still with my partner five years later, and he is still just as wonderful
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You can imagine though that I was absolutely stressed to the max, and at this point not really sure where I stood with my body or with my new relationship... and so you could say I was literally sick with worry. About a week and a half after taking all of those antibiotics, I started to develop these weird symptoms of a bladder infection. It started gradually and then it hit me all at once. Of course, me already being out of my mind, I freaked some more, and went straight back to the Dr. He tested my urine and said " there is no bacteria". Ok, great (NOT) what the heck is going on. I told him my whole history of the STI and about the numerous rounds of antibiotics I was just previously on a week prior. He had no clue, and sent me home.
So I tried to remedy it myself, if there was no infection what the heck was happening to me? I tried to rest, drink lots of fluids etc... It continued to get worse, and I continued to go to the Dr. adamant that something was wrong. I desperately wanted them to find something. To make a long story short, I ended up in the hospital and had blood tests, pelvic exams, STI tests, UTI tests. Everything came back negative, including for Chlamydia at this point.
So again I was sent home still with these bladder symptoms similar to a UTI with out an infection present. At this point, I had understood that I had stressed myself out so badly that there was a good chance that it was significantly adding to my condition, so I decided to do some research and get down to the bottom of it. I changed my diet, and I was eventually tentatively diagnosed with a condition called Interstitial Cystitis. Which is a condition that has similar symptoms to a UTI but no bacteria. I was given medication to take, and after a couple months my medication was working quite well, I started to have a decrease in symptoms and went back to work.
Fast forward five years, I have been on this medication for almost 4.5 years, and generally I do not have any problems whatsoever with my bladder unless I eat something or drink something that makes it upset (kind of like irritable bowel syndrome). Alcohol and coffee especially.
So my concern: The last week my partner and I have actually discussed having kids next FALL. I am SO excited, as being a mum is the most important thing to me in the world...but I am now petrified that my previous issues could have damaged my fertility. I keep reading on the internet ( which I know isn't always good) that you can have scarring from an untreated chlamydia infection and sometimes can have "silent PID" or pelvic inflammatory disease. I have never had any of the symptoms of PID that are overt, like bleeding, severe abdominal pain, discharge, fever, etc. The overt symptoms when you think of a pelvic infection. I was also checked numerous times for PID back when I was having trouble with my bladder and told that " I would have known if I had PID". Well here I am now again, freaking out that I have still managed to have scarring that will prevent me from having my own family.
I think the reason why it bothers me so much is that I had SO much trouble with my bladder, that I think " perhaps THAT was PID?" Was my body trying to tell me this by having symptoms in my urinary tract rather than in my uterus, but still had an effect on my uterus? Did the Dr. miss it every single time? I like to think that is probably not likely.
I have been perfectly fine for almost five years and realistically have had no anxiety about any of it, just chalked it up to something that was unfortunate that happened, and I have been lucky enough to have a fairly normal life with a really great partner. It is only after our conversation about having a family that my mind started to do flips. Am I just over reacting?
Is there anyone who has had this STI and had successful pregnancies just fine?