pregnant after mc - petrified please help

[Lilvixsta]

hey all,

I not sure if i in right place or not but didnt know where else to turn. i am 5wks preg, 6 weeks 4 days ago i had a d&c and lasc due to suspected ectopic/preg of unknown location. and i am so scared i cant be happy about it. i not slept since day i found out and every 5 minutes i am in toilet checking i am not bleeding. I nearly didnt tell my OH as i didnt want to believe it until the 12 weeks had past by i know due to history i had to tell him and go to doctors!! i still not been to doctors as frightened he will tell me bad news, its mad. i just feel like crying!!! Has anyone experienced anything simular???
please responde, give me some advice. xxxx

 

[Lucky4]

I know exactly how you are feeling, as I have had 3 losses. Try to take it a day at a time. You are still recovering emotionally from your recent loss. I hope to feel less worried as weeks go by. Good luck

 

[Lilvixsta]

thank you so much, its nice in a way to know your not going mad having these feelings.but horrible in another that people are going through it! Good luck to you,

 

[wamommy]

You really aren't going mad! I found out a couple days ago that I am pregnant after 2 miscarriages in 3 months... and I can't help but just EXPECT that this will end the same way. It's so hard to be as overjoyed as I should be. A lot of my innocence and naivete about pregnancy is gone. I thought you have sex, get pregnant, baby pops out, happy! Now I know that it can (and does) end another, much more miserable, way.

On the flip side, there are so many women who struggle to even become pregnant, and I try to feel lucky that I seem to fall preggo pretty easily. If only the bean would stick

As hard as it is, try to assume that all will be fine until told otherwise. I'm trying to repeat to myself that all is fine and to refrain from crazy hpt testing. You aren't crazy. I think what we're feeling is normal.

BEst wishes to you and your little one

 

[Lilvixsta]

thank you wamommy. good luck to you too. I was the same as you. i had my son with no real issues, so when i was pregnant last time i was thrilled looking at prams, clothes etc, thinking that was it a baby will arrive in 9 month, so when it didnt and i lost it, i was crushed and to be honest still to this day i dont really know why i lost, they werent sure if i was ectopic, or unknown location, i had lasc and tests and more tests, and the thought of going through anothe 2 weeks of that scares me to death!!! i even frightened to go to tell doc, in case he starts to send me for tests again. i keep thinking wait one one week, then your be another week gone and you might know more. i feel like a crazy women.
I really appriciate your response and i wish you and your baby the most luck xxx