Pregnant after missed miscarriage.. Need some positive stories.. going out of my mind

[tashalouiseb]

I had a missed miscarriage in july this year (should have been 13 weeks+ but told heart stopped around 12 weeks 6days (after seeing hb at 12&5). ) I had an early scan at 6 weeks and 9 weeks and seen the heartbeat but still went on to m/c. I didnt have any idea no pain no bleeding i was completely shocked & devastated as i had tried for 2 years to conceive! . Anyway i used opk's and managed to get pregnant again, got my BFP in november... I am now 12 weeks & 2 days.. My symptoms have more or less disappeared (not that i had many to start with (slight sore boobs, some nausea) but i hear this can also be normal for around 12 weeks. Well i am terrified i have had another missed miscarriage. My early pregnancy unit refused to scan me last week as i have already had one at 6 weeks and heard the Heartbeat so i have to wait until the 3rd january now. Has anybody had a successful pregnancy following a loss AFTER the 12 weeks mark or after a missed miscarriage?? Any stories would be greatly appreciated ladies.. Im going out of my head here Also they never gave me any reason they did do tests but they came back 'normal' so there was nothing wrong with baby i was told it was 'one of them things' which is just heartbreaking!!

 

[aly0890]

Hi hun, congratulations on your pregnancy
I don't have any advice or anything but I'm in the same position atm and would like to offer lots of hugs
Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months xx

 

[tashalouiseb]

Thanks!! Happy & healthy 9 months to you too!! xx

 

[MamaTex]

I didn't want to read and run, so I will offer you and .

 

[mommydreamer]

I'm sorry you're having to go through this, honey! It is the worst feeling. I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks, and this pregnancy is going wonderfully. At the beginning, I couldn't stop worrying and I ended up renting a doppler. It does help to ease your mind! I listened to him every night until he started moving regularly. I hope you feel better soon!

 

[Leinzlove]

I had a MC in March 2012 at 9w2d. It was devastating. I got another BFP in May. I was scared to death. Cried before my first ultrasound, totally freaked out. I freaked out every time I had a Dr. Appt. even after using a doppler until my 20 week ultrasound. I was then jealous of friends when they had thier babies when I should've had mine. Even being pregnant again myself.

And happily I'm going to be meeting my Rainbow soon.

 

[tashalouiseb]

Yeah I'm freakin out too ! Didn't even wanna go to my first ultrasound all I can think it that they r gonna tell me there is no heartbeat again I do have a home doppler but only used it once as I don't wanna scare myself to death if I can't find the heartbeat myself! I have my 14 week scan on jan 3rd , that will be 1 week 1 day past when they told me I had lost my baby in july so I'm terrified but ur story made me feel a little better. Thanksyou! & congrats on ur rainbow baby!X

 

[Leinzlove]

Sadly its normal to freak out. Loss does such cruel things to our hearts. It's also something we'll never entirely get over. There will always be days. I still long for my angel. But, remember hun Rainbows do happen and the odds are for us.

I'll pray and think of you, hun! This is your rainbow!

 

[tashalouiseb]

My scan has been moved forward to tomorrow at 11.50am yaaaay!! Lol x

 

[Leinzlove]

Can't wait for you to get back here and update with your wonderful news. Have a wonderful time seeing your rainbow.

 

[tashalouiseb]

Thanks leinz! Hope its good news !! X

 

[tashalouiseb]

My scan went fine!! 13 Weeks and 1 day , little wriggler x

 

[tashalouiseb]

My scan went fine!! 13 Weeks and 1 day , little wriggler x

 

[Leinzlove]

Yay, see rainbows happen! I'm so happy to hear such great news! Beautiful, Beautiful baby you have there... I guess team !

 

[tashalouiseb]

Thanks!! Aww I hope so! I want a girl but don't REALLY mind alsong as he/she is healthy!! X

 

[Leinzlove]

Definitley healthy is the #1. I just thought I'd throw my guess out there.

 

[hokiemom]

Congratulations!!! I'm so glad everything is going great. I'm also scared to death of my appt. I actually haven't even made one yet. I had a missed miscarriage in Oct. at almost 10 weeks and just found out I was pregnant again about a week and a half ago. I hope my appt. goes as well as yours did.

 

[tashalouiseb]

Thanks hokiemom & GOOD LUCK for your appointment.. Im sure your fine. We just tend to worry more after missed miscarriage, but one miscarriage DOESNT mean another so relax & enjoy your pregnancy. You should make your appointments now , i felt alot better after my scan and am starting not to worry as much now ;-) l Let me know how you get on but im sure youl'e be fine xx

 

[Leinzlove]

hokiemom: I was in the same place after I MC in March at 9 weeks... My rainbow is still baking. Everythings going to be ok.

 

[hokiemom]

Thanks tashalouiseb and leinzlove I feel a little bettr knowing there are others that have gone on to have good scans and healthy babies. I'm praying that my 1st appt. goes as well as both of yours did.