Pregnant again... Different father :(

[ColorMeFamous]

I had a little girl who is 16 months and I'm pregnant again with a different father. The first one isn't involved at all. This one loved my little girl and would let her play with his childhood toys and would snuggle with her. He just adored my little girl. When I told him he told me I was lying (used double protection) so he essentially told me to screw off and blocked me from everything. He has since unblocked me but has made no such advances to try to contact me. I think he will come around but we are both in a lot of shock right now. I am not relying on it though. If I am keeping this baby I'll make sure I can do it on my own just in case. I haven't ruled out adopting it out yet. I'm just wondering if anyone has gone through this. Any tips on raising two kids on your own? I'm not working as I have a loan for being in the paramedic program. Any advice is much appreciated!!

 

[Jade--x]

I have 2 LO's from different fathers and I've done it alone I had the 'it's not mine' from both of them though my oldests FOB changed his mind and now sees him every fortnight, I have nothing to do with him though he see's him with a family member. My youngest's at the minute is using the 'he's not mine anyway' because even the doctors don't know how he was conceived it should have been impossible but he's here and if it makes him feel better to think he's not his..I just leave him to it I don't care what he thinks anymore lol. It's not easy I won't lie, but you always cope. Do you have any family around you for support?x

 

[lita emianita]

dont worry, just leave it flow and you gonna be stronger

 

[ColorMeFamous]

I'm not sure. I haven't told anyone yet. I am going to wait until after Christmas ... were your parents supportive of your first and your second? Both of the father's are still saying oh it isn't mine but that's fine. Probably makes it easier in the end. That's crazy about your secind! Clearly a miracle baby!!