Hey we are women we are built to cope! I have a 10 ,7 and 2 year old and an eight month old and my hubby works away in the week, so i try to be organised . I do what i can and what is important . Things actually run better in the week!! You will have those moments of toddler having a tantrum and baby crying, house a mess and you looking a little unkempt, but its all a learning curve.