pregnant? scared and depressed

[reiome]

Hello there
As you've read from the name i think i might be pregnant, i feel bloated, sick and have had spotted bleeding which iv read could be implantation bleeding. Im on the pill and my bf also withdrew before he came propley which leaves me to the conclucion i could just be ill, iv been extremely depressed due to a family fall out and possible pregnancy and i havnt eaten anything in 3 days apart from 1 apple but iv drank plenty of water.

The reason why im scared that it could be pregnancy is because i feel im not mature enough and physically strong enough to handle the emotions as iv said iv been extremly depressed to point were i dont want to eat anymore, nows the worst time in the world for me to be pregnant, iv always said iv never wanted to have kids and all my friends, family are against teen pregnancy, im 18 and im jst getting my life back on track by going back to college but if i find out im pregnant its going to ruin everything! my bf doesnt want any children, i'll have to drop out of college again and my parents will dissown me.

im so scared im not ready for children! im going to take a test on monday im just scared what i'll do to myself if i find out i am pregnant! iv tried to eat but im just to depressed! sorry if iv rambled on but i just needed to talk to someone thanks for reading!

-x-

 

[leeanne]

Best wishes honey! I hope you get the answer you are looking for.

Chances are though that you sound stressed and that could be the cause of feeling ill and a late period.

 

[dizzy65]

aww hope everything goes as planned for u

 

[Serene123]

I agree with Leanne, I think it's that you're stressed.

 

[Nik_]

I really doubt that you're pregnant. You said you take the pill and your boyfriend pulled out as well, so chances are you're not pregnant. Spotting is also a common side effect of taking the pill.

Try to just calm down and not stress about this. Also, try your best to eat. I know that it's hard to do while depressed, but you need to force yourself to eat. Not eating will only make things worse. Try and relax, do something that will allow you do so, such as taking a bubble bath.

Still take the test on Monday as it will help ease your mind, but until then, calm down.

 

[reiome]

Hi guys thanks,

iv got my period early, or iv just started bleeding again its only light but my period isnt due until next week? its never happended before whilst i was on the pill, which has made me more anxious and i know i shouldnt worry to much but now that this happened im even more worried!

could it be beceause i skipped my 7 day break and went straight onto a new pack? its the second time iv done this but the least time none of this happened and i got my period on the right time.

i'll try eat something today :s
thanks

 

[sam's mum]

Stress (as well as not eating very well) can do all sorts of things to your cycle. Are you still in the middle of taking the second pack of pills after you skipped the 7 day break? x

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

your period is probs late ue to stress hun like the rest of he gurls said. hope everything goes ok for you
xx

 

[leeanne]

could it be beceause i skipped my 7 day break and went straight onto a new pack? its the second time iv done this but the least time none of this happened and i got my period on the right time.

i'll try eat something today :s
thanks

Yes, that's probably exactly what it is and why your system got screwed up.

Now, I advise you not to mess with the pill and the scheduling of the beginning and end of taking them each month.

You left this little detail out in your first post.

 

[XKatX]

I used to get some random bleeding when I was on the pill. Sometimes your body gets used to it and you just need to change the pill that you're on. You're gp or family planning nurse should be able to give you some advice.

 

[sam's mum]

Yes, that's probably exactly what it is and why your system got screwed up.

Now, I advise you not to mess with the pill and the scheduling of the beginning and end of taking them each month.

You left this little detail out in your first post.

It is ok to take 2 packs at once with some pills - I used to sometimes (checked with the doctor that I could first), but always got my period in the 7 day break at the end of the second pack (which was why I was wondering when hers was).

I would go and see your doctor if you're not feeling right though, even if you're not pregnant x

 

[bubbles]

It depends on how your system reacts to the pill. I for example couldn't skip my pill free week as it made me feel really ill but I didn't bleed while taking it where as I had friends who would go a few months without their pill free week and they would have no sisde effects. My normal pill was fine for me but my sister couldn't take it due to the combination of hormones. I wouldn't automatically assume that it is down to not having a pill free week, but it could be that and the combination of stress and not eating. I hope it works out for you hun

 

[reiome]

yes i have 3 pills left and i have light bleeding which is very dark brown which im thinking might be a withdrawl bleed, im just hoping i still have my regular period on the break, but i will still take a pregnancy test on monday before my period is supose to start so i wont go crazy if it doesnt. good news is iv starting eating again not as much as i used to but i do feel a lot better. I will prob go to my GP and switch pills if im not pregnant thanks for the advice! .

Thanks for your encouragement and support im so glad i joined this forum
I'll keep you updated with the news on monday!
Thanks again!
-x-

 

[sam's mum]

Glad you're eating again and feeling a bit better. Let us know how the test goes today x