bloodbinds
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So i have recently found myself single - pretty much an equal decision
There is a guy that i have been friends with for years, we've always had this flirtation... and i know that he has always had real feelings for me.
I saw him the other day and we spent the night laughing joking and talking - he texted me later saying he still has feelings for me and thinks he always will etc
Now, of course, he knows that i'm pregnant, and that my situation is difficult. He says things like he's prepared to wait for me - he's waited 5 years after all.
I'm struggling to know if i have feelings for him - i know i could, if i let myself. But i'm still getting over my Ex, still learning to cope to be a single parent, still wondering how things are going to turn out. I know better than anyone that i'm not ready for another relationship, not ready to fall in love again.
But i can't help enjoying the attention, enjoying the thought of having someone love me again - despite everything!
But what i'm trying to say is, i'm confused about having feelings for anyone while i'm pregnant with another mans baby. He keeps saying he wants to see me - just as friends - but because he has feelings for me, and i might have feelings for him, it doesn't seem right to see him while i'm pregnant...i feel, guilty? I think. I should be concentrating completely on the pregnancy, not on feelings for other men!!
Is anyone else going through this? Any ideas on what to do? :-S
There is a guy that i have been friends with for years, we've always had this flirtation... and i know that he has always had real feelings for me.
I saw him the other day and we spent the night laughing joking and talking - he texted me later saying he still has feelings for me and thinks he always will etc
Now, of course, he knows that i'm pregnant, and that my situation is difficult. He says things like he's prepared to wait for me - he's waited 5 years after all.
I'm struggling to know if i have feelings for him - i know i could, if i let myself. But i'm still getting over my Ex, still learning to cope to be a single parent, still wondering how things are going to turn out. I know better than anyone that i'm not ready for another relationship, not ready to fall in love again.
But i can't help enjoying the attention, enjoying the thought of having someone love me again - despite everything!
But what i'm trying to say is, i'm confused about having feelings for anyone while i'm pregnant with another mans baby. He keeps saying he wants to see me - just as friends - but because he has feelings for me, and i might have feelings for him, it doesn't seem right to see him while i'm pregnant...i feel, guilty? I think. I should be concentrating completely on the pregnancy, not on feelings for other men!!
Is anyone else going through this? Any ideas on what to do? :-S