Annie77
Cautiously expecting
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Let me start by saying that the doctors have given me no choice about having a csection - I am not opting for one to be a control freak etc.
Because the consultant met with me so late in my pregnancy there were very few elective slots left for either of the nearby hospitals & I was given mon3rd June, just 2 days short of my due date.
Hubby seemed indifferent to begin with but when I was in the hospital over weekend he made a comment about wanting the baby out that weekend. I jokingly accused him of wanting baby out before this weekends cup final match but when I got home he told me that 3rd June was actually the anniversary of his mums death when he was 9. He thought he wasn't bothered by it but it has gradually got to him and he states he would do anything to avoid the birth and death sharing a date.
I feel so bad - he rarely talks about his mums death as it was very traumatic for him and obviously a life changing event when he moved country, school etc.
My question is - should I ask midwife tomorrow if she could phone hospital and double check if there have been any cancellations for next week? Or should I just wait and see what happens, after all she could come early anyway or theatre could end up cancelling me on 3rd? I just don't want to come across like a diva- asking for a date to suit us when all you ladies are totally unknowing when your babies could be here.
Because the consultant met with me so late in my pregnancy there were very few elective slots left for either of the nearby hospitals & I was given mon3rd June, just 2 days short of my due date.
Hubby seemed indifferent to begin with but when I was in the hospital over weekend he made a comment about wanting the baby out that weekend. I jokingly accused him of wanting baby out before this weekends cup final match but when I got home he told me that 3rd June was actually the anniversary of his mums death when he was 9. He thought he wasn't bothered by it but it has gradually got to him and he states he would do anything to avoid the birth and death sharing a date.
I feel so bad - he rarely talks about his mums death as it was very traumatic for him and obviously a life changing event when he moved country, school etc.
My question is - should I ask midwife tomorrow if she could phone hospital and double check if there have been any cancellations for next week? Or should I just wait and see what happens, after all she could come early anyway or theatre could end up cancelling me on 3rd? I just don't want to come across like a diva- asking for a date to suit us when all you ladies are totally unknowing when your babies could be here.