Putting of going through Daisy's things

[linzlu0_0]

Well we got through our anomaly scan and dispite all the early scares. scans and tests bubs looks fine is growing well and is. So we said once we got to this point we'd go through Daisy's clothes, blankets etc that are in our walk in cupboard to see what can be used for a bump and then re-pack what can't in a nice box we got well I've been putting it off and still can't bear the thought of doing it, I know if she was here then her brother would get to use her stuff but it just doesn't seem right yet as she never got to use them.
Also hubby said we need to get the bigger stuff out the loft soon, why I was just hoping to leave it up there until this bump is safely home, but he is right we need to air it, clean it and check we have everything or what we need we try and put it of for a few more week if I can don't want it about for too long its hard enough all ready

 

[hb1]

I can only imagine how heart breaking it must be. You might find it a very cathartic experience once you start to do this - there is no right or wrong here just whatever you feel is right for you and Daisy.

So sorry you have to go through this after everything you have been through already.

hx

 

[Embo78]

Sending some

I can't even begin to imagine how painful that will be. If at all possible, you could take a positive from it. Daisy is watching over you and her little brother, keeping him safe and wants him to use her things. That's what big sister's are for

 

[secretbaby]

(((hugs))) - Have written 3 long replies but none seem right. I had to do the same with Billys things, it was hard and yes I cried over some items (mothercare cardigan of all things). But to me it was another step in the grieving process I had to go through (I wouldn't let DH do It I had to). I felt the time leading up to it thinking about it was worse than doing it... but that may just be me.

(((hugs)))

 

[marnie79]

hugs hun, do it when u feel ready dont force the issue, ive already been through the stuff i had for olly and will be using all of the clothes for this baby, which is sad in a way but its not like olly actually got to use them, i still havent worked up to the playmat or bouny chair etc i know im gonna have to use them but i think it will be hard at first, im deff gonna try to leave it all in the attic for as long as possible, just another thing that we have to go through hun, a bitter reminder of what we have lost xx Daisy xx