ttcbambino#1
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Hi Ladies
There have been a couple of threads in 1st tri lately that have got me thinking and I have a few questions about breast feeding if thats ok?
1. How did you make your OH feel part of the process? My Hubby and all his siblings (6 in total) we're bottle fed and he is taking a lot of persuading to accept the BF is best all round as 'we all turned out fine'. I think it's because he might feel left out, as he's already spoken about wanting to be getting up at night and helping etc, but if I exclusively BF then he won't really have much of a role in the actual feeding. I could express so he can bottle feed, but I'm not 100% about this, so...
2. How do you find expressing? Does it mess up natural rythm of BF?
3. I am a fairly shy person and I will not be BF in front of anyone other than OH. It's not down to just shyness, I'd rather it was a private moment between me, bubs and OH. How did, in particular, your families respond? I have a feeling our families might take offence if I up and leave the room with bubs to feed. Especially OH family as they really don't do BF and when his sister had her baby they all took turns to bottle feed him, in fact I rarely saw her give him his bottle, the family we're all over him, almost fighting as to who's turn it was!!!
4. I have, erm how do I say this, 'big baps' already!! They feel a little bigger at the moemnt, not enough to move up a size just yet, how much bigger did you get and do they start to decrease as you breast feed or do they stay consistent size??
Sorry know it's a lot of questions!!! Hope you can help, I know your all busy mummies, so any feedback is very much appreciated! xx
There have been a couple of threads in 1st tri lately that have got me thinking and I have a few questions about breast feeding if thats ok?
1. How did you make your OH feel part of the process? My Hubby and all his siblings (6 in total) we're bottle fed and he is taking a lot of persuading to accept the BF is best all round as 'we all turned out fine'. I think it's because he might feel left out, as he's already spoken about wanting to be getting up at night and helping etc, but if I exclusively BF then he won't really have much of a role in the actual feeding. I could express so he can bottle feed, but I'm not 100% about this, so...
2. How do you find expressing? Does it mess up natural rythm of BF?
3. I am a fairly shy person and I will not be BF in front of anyone other than OH. It's not down to just shyness, I'd rather it was a private moment between me, bubs and OH. How did, in particular, your families respond? I have a feeling our families might take offence if I up and leave the room with bubs to feed. Especially OH family as they really don't do BF and when his sister had her baby they all took turns to bottle feed him, in fact I rarely saw her give him his bottle, the family we're all over him, almost fighting as to who's turn it was!!!
4. I have, erm how do I say this, 'big baps' already!! They feel a little bigger at the moemnt, not enough to move up a size just yet, how much bigger did you get and do they start to decrease as you breast feed or do they stay consistent size??
Sorry know it's a lot of questions!!! Hope you can help, I know your all busy mummies, so any feedback is very much appreciated! xx