Quick question...

[CaptainMummy]

So my ex has Paige 3 nights a week, and loves her very dearly. He gets her wed- sat, and i pick her up on the saturday morning. Its fathers day on sunday... And i feel he should have her on that day, as he is her father afterall!

What should i do? Let him have her the extra night and pick her up on sunday? Im not sure.. He will suggest that i get her on saturday as usual, then he will cone up on sunday and do something (any excuse to spend time with me, as he wants me back but im not going back). If he keeps her the extra night, would it be bad of me to want to keep her an extra night too?

 

[Ceejay123]

Youre being very selfless Why don't you ask him what he prefers? Ask him if he wants to have her an extra night, but say that means you want her until Thursday? He should be greatful! x

 

[Natsku]

I would let him have the extra night and then take an extra night yourself, that seems fairest to me.

 

[jemmie1994]

Sounds very fair to me

 

[CaptainMummy]

I asked him, but Ive actually took her a day early, not because I asked him, but shes not very well and was at the doctors with her, so just kept her here as I would have to go pick her up in the morning, so would be pointless for her to go to her dads to come back in the morning.
He has said he will just come over and take her out somewhere on Sunday... no Idea where as theres nowhere to go! Gives me a wee couple of hours to get some sleep!

 

[KayBea]

i would maybe send her thurs night & collect Sunday afternoon?
i dont know my ex is pretty gutted hes not seeing our LO at all..