Last week (I was 14 weeks pregnant) I was raped by someone I knew and the first person I told was the babys father. He called 911 and I went to the hospital, had a rape kit done, etc. But I was so shocked and hurt I chose not to report it right away. I needed time to deal with it. This was someone I'd known for 2 years and they were a very close friend. The whole time the babys father was yelling at me saying I HAD to do it or he was walking away or just saying anything to pressure me into reporting this.
About 4 or 5 days later I miscarried our baby
For the first day ( and the first day only) the father was supportive and sympathetic, but he's been saying the miscarriage is my fault now. It's my fault because I let the man who raped me be around me ( little backstory on the father. he left me ( without ever actually breaking up with me) then a few weeks later i found out i was pregnant. he stayed with his new gf still. I was put on bedrest and he went to ohio to be with his gf and her daughter instead og helping me so this man who raped me came to help. basically he wasnt really there for me.) He recently liked a page on facebook titled" don't have sex because you'll get pregnant and die". That hurt sooo bad. He was screaming at me for days causing fights saying idc about the baby. Then he just decided he wanted to forget about the baby entirely and that we shouldn't talk anymore.
I'm so so hurt. How could he want to forget? I agreed to not speak to him anymore, but I want to call him up so badly and just ask him how he could be so hateful towards me when I did nothing wrong? How could he EVER want to forget the baby?
Thanks for reading. I needed to vent this out. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do about the father or if I should contact him?
P.s. I have recently reported the rape
About 4 or 5 days later I miscarried our baby
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I'm so so hurt. How could he want to forget? I agreed to not speak to him anymore, but I want to call him up so badly and just ask him how he could be so hateful towards me when I did nothing wrong? How could he EVER want to forget the baby?
Thanks for reading. I needed to vent this out. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do about the father or if I should contact him?
P.s. I have recently reported the rape