If you really don't want to get pregnant have you thought about the morning after pill?
It's against my beliefs. If there's a little tiny bean in there, it's there to stay.
If you don't want to get pregnant why aren't you using contraception?
We are, normally. We use the LadyComp, which tells me when I'm fertile and so we avoid sex on those few days each month or use a condom. But this was just a time when passion got the better of us. It's the first time we've had an oops in the three and a three quarters years we've been together, so I don't think we're doing that badly!
Get off your high horse!
Thanks for the reassurance, guys. Like I say, normally we're more careful but I think knowing we're ready for a bump and the only reason we're holding off is to get married and drop my medication the last little bit to zero made for not enough will power this time!