Really need your help - what would you do?

If it were me I would go ahead and do the grown up today.
How dark is the line? I only get one day that I can call a +, and it's pretty +, but I still think the control line is a tad darker (not much though). I was just always told on here that if its not as dark or darker than the control then it's not a +, but thats all I get! I think you just have to feel out whats normal for you and this month is a discovery month. So since you're flying blind I would say if its close to a + and you haven't had any +s before... go ahead and dtd. If you get a darker line tomorrow do it again! There's no rule that says you can't bd two days in a row, and this way you have covered your bases.
But thats just me

 

Yes, if your partner's sperm count is normal don't think there's any reason why you can't do it everyday!!

 

Have fun!