really upset, advice please x

[joannep]

Hi

I reckon I'm 10 DPO max and did a test today and was negative.

My friend tested early the other month and got a faint positive.

I miscarried last month before 6 weeks. The lines were faint on the tests when I found out I was pregnant 3 days after period was due.

Do you think that I am out of the running this month? I'm really starting to struggle and I was so positive at the start of the month.

Advice really really appreciated.

Thanks x

 

[VictoriaElaur]

I'm so sorry to hear that you had a miscarriage, I have also had one and its awful.
10 Days is still very early sweetie and (in my opinion) you still have a chance this month.

But if you aren't then I would take it that your body may well need to rest this month.
Try not to be hard on yourself.

Hope its good news keep me posted

 

[joannep]

Thanks for the reply. It just gets you down when you are trying so hard to be so positive doesn't it? I'll keep you posted but I think I'm going to try and wait now and see if AF comes rather then test again. what do you think?

 

[Jolene]

Hi Joanne,

IMO, don't test until AF is due to arrive. I have been through so many bfn's and the only time I've ever got my bfp's was the day AF was due. I get so jealous when other women get their bfp's from 9DPO, lol.

All the best luv

 

[VictoriaElaur]

It does get you down, plus you can easily start blaming yourself when its actually out of your control.

I think that's a great plan hun. Try and pack your life with other things for a while (easy to say and I'm a huge hypocrite trust me).
Eat well get lots of rest and be really nice to yourself. xxxxx

 

[joannep]

Awh thanks you two. I think you are right with your advice (just needed someone to tell me though!)

Jolene that's just me! I wish I could just get my BFP as like you only after AF was due did I get faint lines and nothing before!

Good luck to both of you with everything and really appreciate your advice.

Thanks Joanne x

 

[Jay_Bird]

Sorry to hear that Sweetie :[
*hugs*
I tested 8 days earlier than I should have and got a BFN but was reassure that I'd tested too early.
So don't worry, and test when AF hasn't arrived, I know it's easy to say lol.

xOxOx