Recurrent MC..worried that there's something wrong..

[WildChild]

Hi All,

I just had my 3rd mc after 3 years ttc. Today I decided to make
an appointment with my GP for a referal for tests.

Is anyone doing the same? And what turned out to be wrong? I hope I don't have something serious wrong that can't be fixed!

Looking forward to getting to know some of you...

x

 

[rachjim98]

Just wanted to say sorry for your losses and welcome to B&B.

 

[KKSARAH]

Hi wildchild, I cant your question yet as my appointment at the hospital isnt until next monday(12th Jan).

Will let you know a little more when I have been

sxx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

yep been there hunni... iv had 4m/cs all died at the same time each pregnancy. gt refered for all tests took 3 months 2 get results, a further 3 months 2 see a specialist. found out i have a chromosme defect. i need IVF/PGD in order 2 have a baby..

reacurrant can be due to many reasons... as your dr to tell them all 2 u..

gd luck
xx

 

[Wishfull]

Hello sweetie

So sorry for your loss. You will get all the comfort and kind words you need on this site. Were all here for you an this terrible journey, that no-one should have to go through.

xxx

 

[JASMAK]

I have had three pregnancy losses. I had some testing, but not everything.

 

[haaza123]

I've had my fourth mc last month, the doctors finally reffered me to see the gynecologists. Im still waiting for my appointment, will let you know what happens when it happens. The doctor told me that they probably will do a rage of blood tests and a procedure called lap and dye which checks to see if your tubes are blocked or something.

Hoping to get a appointment asap as im desperate to find out whats causing me to mc.

 

[coccyx]

We had 4 miscs before we were 'investigated'. I found not knowing the cause harder to deal with . Once we were told the probable cause was a chromosome problem in hubbys sperm and told our chances of having a viable pregnancy were 50/50, I found that gave us hope.

 

[Omi]

Im the same. I have an apmt for tests next friday (16th jan) and i dont have much clue what to expect. i do however know that there is a 50/50 chance of getting an answer, which the way i look at it is a win/win situation as if there's something i can look into getting it fixed and i'll know why i mc..and if i get nothing from the tests i shall take the mc's as just bad luck and keep ttc as if nothing happened (not that i wouldnt anyway, mind you )

I hope you get some answers soon, hun, and all the best!

Hugs, Omi xxx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Im the same. I have an apmt for tests next friday (16th jan) and i dont have much clue what to expect. i do however know that there is a 50/50 chance of getting an answer, which the way i look at it is a win/win situation as if there's something i can look into getting it fixed and i'll know why i mc..and if i get nothing from the tests i shall take the mc's as just bad luck and keep ttc as if nothing happened (not that i wouldnt anyway, mind you )

I hope you get some answers soon, hun, and all the best!

Hugs, Omi xxx

i could help if u want 2 no what2 expect iv had the whole lot.. PM if u like

 

[buffycat]

hiya.....

i had my second mc last month (twins).....due to my arthritis and that we have been trying for 2 years, i have also been referred. I'm waiting for my appointment too.....

fingers crossed you don't have to wait too long, and fingers crossed that everything goes ok for you.....

 

[Drazic<3]

Im sorry for your losses, hope you find the answers your looking for

 

[princess_t]

Sorry for your loss hun.

 

[honey08]

so sry for ur losses girls
can i ask,if OH has got chromosome problems,is it there first childd there trying for, or cud they have kids and then this happens all of a suddern ?
i mmc in march08 and it truley devastated us and his son,im now over 13wks and hope2god this is guna be the happy crying baby we take home,cos i cudnt do it again, i did read something bout chemicals the other day and it said this is just purely bad luck OR ur progs doesnt rise high enough for the egg to latch on, this was in baby and pregnancy magazine,they have lots of info bout losses etc
hope u all get to become mums and dads asap

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

so sry for ur losses girls
can i ask,if OH has got chromosome problems,is it there first childd there trying for, or cud they have kids and then this happens all of a suddern ?
i mmc in march08 and it truley devastated us and his son,im now over 13wks and hope2god this is guna be the happy crying baby we take home,cos i cudnt do it again, i did read something bout chemicals the other day and it said this is just purely bad luck OR ur progs doesnt rise high enough for the egg to latch on, this was in baby and pregnancy magazine,they have lots of info bout losses etc
hope u all get to become mums and dads asap

i carry a chomosme problem i cant carry a baby past 7 weeks because there either lacking part of the chomosme or have 2 much. i have a chance of havintg a baby naturally but only a 1 in 4 chance due to the chomosme.
its more than likely thre first child but not always u could get a good egg/sperm with the good chomose in and makes a baby. even tho if either u or OH did carry a chomomse problem they advise u to have an amno as nothing is 100%. chomosme problems is a cause of high reacurrant m/cs tho.

 

[WildChild]

Hi Girls,

Thanks so much for your replies.
Those of you who had appointments in this week, how did it go?

Not knowing is the worst, so just by starting the process of finding whats
wrong has made me more positive.

Good luck to all of you!

xx

 

[bklove]

yep been there hunni... iv had 4m/cs all died at the same time each pregnancy. gt refered for all tests took 3 months 2 get results, a further 3 months 2 see a specialist. found out i have a chromosme defect. i need IVF/PGD in order 2 have a baby..

reacurrant can be due to many reasons... as your dr to tell them all 2 u..

gd luck
xx

It's crazy to hear it took so long to get answers. Is it easier knowing what the problem is? I have had 2 and i'm about to find out on th if I just experienced a 3rd miscarriage, I believe so and i'm ready to find out what is going on. It's been less than a year, but I had my first one a few years back and its the same thing, all at the same time.

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

yes its alot easier knowing massive weight off my mind. but the waiting is so hard