OK. I went to see the consultant today to talk about the reason for loosing Samuel.
I need to let you know more of my story to help explain the result, so here goes....
It was very hard for us to concieve Samuel, indeed nearly 7 years had passed since DD was born. We had given up really, so when I started to feel icky and tired, didn't really think it could be possible. I did the test and was pretty gobsmacked when it was positive. At first I was scared, after all it had been 7 years and was that too big a gap...? Anyway, that all passed, and we were all so happy. We had our 13 week scan, and all was fine, we told DD. Then a few days later we got a call that changed it all.
1 in 80 chance on Downs
CVS or Amnio????????????
We discussed both till blue in the face. CVS is earlier, Amnio later and more common less risk.
We chose CVS.
CVS FAILED - I have to say it was probably the worst experience ever.
CVS again a week later or wait a couple more days and do Amnio??????
We chose Amnio.
Amnio success - and sooooo much easier than CVS.
Phew, we got through it all.
Then the week after a normal MW appointment, and no heartbeat... I think you know the rest.
So, the result is that it is highly likely that the CVS or Amnio caused the loss of our baby boy, who was fine (although we didn't have a PM done). Ironically the Amnio results provided us with confirmation of Samuels gender in order that we could properly name him.
Of course they can't rule out a natural (not CVS or Amnio) reason for the loss.
I need to stress that our testing decisions were not taken lightly, we had our own personal (family)reasons for doing the downs test, and I am sure many of you have differing opinions on this. I just hate the thought that we may have made the wrong decision...
So I think that's it.
I need to let you know more of my story to help explain the result, so here goes....
It was very hard for us to concieve Samuel, indeed nearly 7 years had passed since DD was born. We had given up really, so when I started to feel icky and tired, didn't really think it could be possible. I did the test and was pretty gobsmacked when it was positive. At first I was scared, after all it had been 7 years and was that too big a gap...? Anyway, that all passed, and we were all so happy. We had our 13 week scan, and all was fine, we told DD. Then a few days later we got a call that changed it all.
1 in 80 chance on Downs
CVS or Amnio????????????
We discussed both till blue in the face. CVS is earlier, Amnio later and more common less risk.
We chose CVS.
CVS FAILED - I have to say it was probably the worst experience ever.
CVS again a week later or wait a couple more days and do Amnio??????
We chose Amnio.
Amnio success - and sooooo much easier than CVS.
Phew, we got through it all.
Then the week after a normal MW appointment, and no heartbeat... I think you know the rest.
So, the result is that it is highly likely that the CVS or Amnio caused the loss of our baby boy, who was fine (although we didn't have a PM done). Ironically the Amnio results provided us with confirmation of Samuels gender in order that we could properly name him.
Of course they can't rule out a natural (not CVS or Amnio) reason for the loss.
I need to stress that our testing decisions were not taken lightly, we had our own personal (family)reasons for doing the downs test, and I am sure many of you have differing opinions on this. I just hate the thought that we may have made the wrong decision...
So I think that's it.