right back where i started...

[toby2]

i already have a son and i am so very grateful for him but i would like another child...started trying 18months ago-got preg in april 08 but m/c in july 08, got preg again in nov 08 but m/c in feb 09, now its nearly april again and i right back where i started and it hurts...dont know if i should just keep going or if its time to go to the dr's or what to do really?am very scared about the prospect of another m/c(previous two both at 13wks) but more scared of not getting preg, am doing what i can(eating healthyetc) but i just feel so helpless in all this?
I meant to post this in secondary infertility,sorry

 

[NickyT75]

xx

 

[Barneyboo]

Its hard isn't it, your damned if you do and damned if you don't! are your Dr's approachable could you go and talk to them and tell them your fears see if they could send you for any test? I am reading an amazing book which one of the girls on here recommended its called is your body baby friendly by Alan Beer.

Thinking of you and understand what you are going through x x x x x

 

[Kirstin]

I would go to the doctors they may be able to do some tests so then you know whats wrong

 

[HAYS]

hun, so sorry your feeling like this, have the doctors not offered you any tests?
Maybe take a look at BarneyBoo's journal, she has been having tests etc.. and has been given baby aspirin
xxx

 

[Aria]

Would you look back 20 years from now and regret not trying a while longer? It's hard now, but after menopause, would you regret not trying, or would you regret "wasting" time trying?

 

[toby2]

Thanks for book suggestion barney boo,will see if i can get hold of it...and will also have a look at your journal...thanks hays!!
thanks for kind thoughts and pma-think i will make a dr appointment next week and take it from there
xx

 

[tansey]

Sorry for your losses! Like the other girls said - i would defo be getting some tests! Good luck!