Right, that's it. Now it's my turn!

[hopeful4baby]

No need to reply, i just want to shout it out loud, so every cell in my brain and body will get it and start acting accordingly!! And this is a positive post!

I've just got a text from my best friend she had a boy yesterday. She is really blessed, got pregnant only her 3rd month trying. Pregnancy by the book. The day she announced she was 8 weeks pregnant, I've been trying for over a year again. I've cried my eyes out and I was saying to my DH I wouldn't be able to take it when even she has her baby and I won't still be even pregnant by then.

Guess what.. She's had her baby, I'm not pregnant. I'm here, I'm alive, ok and happy for her for once.

But I've decided I have enough of my own terrible self-fullfiling prophecies!!! STOP!!! No more telling myself "I bet she gets pregnant before me.. or gosh, she'll have her baby and I won't even be pregnant!" etc...

So, now, I'm going to get pregnant and have a baby! So that are children will be about a year apart and will be playing together!!

Now IT'S MY TURN!!!!

 

[BigFoot1980]

 

[littlestar]

 

[miel]

 

[wantingmore]

I am sorry for your pain. My SIL started TTC. I started TTC 4 months later. She is due in 3 months. I am still TTC and was referred today to an infertility specialist. It sucks. I am happy for her, but it doesn't make the want for my own go away. Hugs to you.

 

[hopeful4baby]

Thank you girls for your hugs.

This wasn't a rant, this was a command!

)

Wantingmore: It is simply tougher for some! I'd be willing to forget it all, if only it happended at last!!!

 

[CareBear]

 

[vineyard]

Good PMA!!!

 

[latestarter]

Its sooooo hard.

I also have a friend - she got pregnant on her 3rd try too, and the baby is due in 6 weeks. I started trying before her.

Its a weired feeling to be so happy for someone and so jealous at the same time.

And yes... You will be pregnant and have a baby!!

Good luck.

 

[louisaL]

hi hun i know what you mean xx since trying last april i've had 25 yes 25 people either get pregnant or have babies. its so heartbreaking and one of those people as you can see by my tickers is my own sister and its her 3rd and fell first month trying for this one. of course i am happy for her but its like its my turn!!

we WILL get PREGNANT!

 

[Barneyboo]

PMA

 

[dinky]

ive been trying to get preggers for 2.5 years now, my younger sister is now trying for her 2nd baby and i was trying before she started trying for her 1st! my best friend has just gave birth to her 2nd child and i was trying before her too! shes the same age as me. im only 22 its not fair. i currently seeing a fertility specialist and ive got my appointment to discuss my lap on april 27th, seems so far away! wonder how many more people i know will have bfp's by then?! i think god makes people like us so that there are people out there who are alot more grateful for what they have when they eventually get it than people who get what they want when they want! the world needs people like us!!!! lol. it will happen