rwhite
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Sorry, this thread has probably been done a million times over, just wanted a little rant - feel free to add your frustrations and stories of your dealings with judgemental people
OH and I took Lachlan for his 6 week jabs yesterday. We were waiting in the waiting room for the nurse to call us in, and I noticed that there was a lady who was I'd say maybe...55? sitting across the room giving me the dirtiest looks. I thought maybe I was imagining it, but OH later said that he noticed it too - even described what colour she was wearing before I got a chance so I know he was talking about the same person!
It really gets on my nerves - obviously she was just judging me because I'm a young mother, and it's downright rude. There was no other reason she could've been looking at me like that - it's not like Lachlan was playing up, he was being a little angel - even smiled for a little old lady The old lady was nicer than that stupid bint..
I'm 20, so I just find it rather stupid that they're judging - I don't think I look school age anymore so not sure why they are even still looking? Not that they should judge mothers who are younger than me anyway because it's damn rude. Plus I had a partner with me, so you'd think that would lessen the judgement, but still no...I just didn't expect I'd be getting quite as many bad looks as I am! On another note - I don't dress like a tramp either so it's not that I had on black jeans and a grey cardi yesterday! I don't know...
Rant pretty much over, sorry girls...also, I get it a lot when around the mall. OH's sister noticed it and I hadn't even picked it up at that point. She was like "It's weird, some people are smiling at you, and others are giving you the dirtiest stares". And now I have noticed it a lot more. But that lady at the doctors clinic, oooh...it was just obvious Wish I'd said something but wasn't sure what to say!
Didn't mean to offend anybody by my comment about me being 20 and not understanding why I get the looks - I can just see more why people would be quick to judge a teenager when they are a parent. But by that I don't mean that any of you are bad parents because you are all fantastic
Now that that's over...care to share your stories of rude people you've encountered anybody? xx
OH and I took Lachlan for his 6 week jabs yesterday. We were waiting in the waiting room for the nurse to call us in, and I noticed that there was a lady who was I'd say maybe...55? sitting across the room giving me the dirtiest looks. I thought maybe I was imagining it, but OH later said that he noticed it too - even described what colour she was wearing before I got a chance so I know he was talking about the same person!
It really gets on my nerves - obviously she was just judging me because I'm a young mother, and it's downright rude. There was no other reason she could've been looking at me like that - it's not like Lachlan was playing up, he was being a little angel - even smiled for a little old lady The old lady was nicer than that stupid bint..
I'm 20, so I just find it rather stupid that they're judging - I don't think I look school age anymore so not sure why they are even still looking? Not that they should judge mothers who are younger than me anyway because it's damn rude. Plus I had a partner with me, so you'd think that would lessen the judgement, but still no...I just didn't expect I'd be getting quite as many bad looks as I am! On another note - I don't dress like a tramp either so it's not that I had on black jeans and a grey cardi yesterday! I don't know...
Rant pretty much over, sorry girls...also, I get it a lot when around the mall. OH's sister noticed it and I hadn't even picked it up at that point. She was like "It's weird, some people are smiling at you, and others are giving you the dirtiest stares". And now I have noticed it a lot more. But that lady at the doctors clinic, oooh...it was just obvious Wish I'd said something but wasn't sure what to say!
Didn't mean to offend anybody by my comment about me being 20 and not understanding why I get the looks - I can just see more why people would be quick to judge a teenager when they are a parent. But by that I don't mean that any of you are bad parents because you are all fantastic
Now that that's over...care to share your stories of rude people you've encountered anybody? xx