They haven't really been specific, I think his ADHD his a given, no one could deny that, but the autism is quite clear to me and everyone agrees he has indicators but no one has said more than that, other than him being referred here there and everywhere.
It's frustrating as I'm just left feeling I'm a bad mum and that's the issue. Although we have numerous professionals saying otherwise and my twins don't display any of the symptoms Sam does and certainly not the violence. It is hard not to doubt yourself though.
Sam has an ASD assessment at school tomorrow and I'm convened they will come back and say, it's ADHD not ASD, because his ADHD is obvious and his sensory issues, social issues and communication issues aren't noticed when he is running, screaming and pushing. It's not unless the see him with a hand dryer, or it's quite and he lines up toys, or when a child enters his personal space etc, that you think oh yeah, perhaps more than just ADHD.