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I know im probably being ridiculous and stupid over nothing but im actually really scared to TTC for my second baby whist the journey would fill most wannabe' mums with joy
With my first pregnancy (he's 10 months now) I was convinced all the way through until my 20 week scan it was a girl so id began looking up some rather cute frocks and lots of pink and frills only to have my dreams ripped from me when i was told that my baby was a boy, though thesedays I have gotten used to having a boy and rather grown to love him, no he's not a girl but me and OH always joked they'd be next time, but things seemed to have swapped themselves right around!..Instead of longing for a girl ive now switched my views completely and now i yearn for another boy!
In around 2 months we've decided to TTC again for our second and last baby, but in my mind im putting it off as im too scared of getting a girl!, i just find that i get on with boys a lot better than baby girls..I just seem them as, well strange i suppose!..In my family our mums usually have their boys first and then on their second pregnancy they get girls, the only person this didn't happen to was my mothers mum who got a girl first then had 3 boys later on and then OH's side his mum had a mix and has 2 of each!
I know id be absolutely devastated if i got a girl next time around as it will be our last child and the fact of my son having a little brother will dwindle to nothing more than a pink frock! ..Trying to assure myself that it could be totally different to me isn't working at all
Im sorry for the waste of a topic i just needed to get it all down and out before i drive myself crazy!
With my first pregnancy (he's 10 months now) I was convinced all the way through until my 20 week scan it was a girl so id began looking up some rather cute frocks and lots of pink and frills only to have my dreams ripped from me when i was told that my baby was a boy, though thesedays I have gotten used to having a boy and rather grown to love him, no he's not a girl but me and OH always joked they'd be next time, but things seemed to have swapped themselves right around!..Instead of longing for a girl ive now switched my views completely and now i yearn for another boy!
In around 2 months we've decided to TTC again for our second and last baby, but in my mind im putting it off as im too scared of getting a girl!, i just find that i get on with boys a lot better than baby girls..I just seem them as, well strange i suppose!..In my family our mums usually have their boys first and then on their second pregnancy they get girls, the only person this didn't happen to was my mothers mum who got a girl first then had 3 boys later on and then OH's side his mum had a mix and has 2 of each!
I know id be absolutely devastated if i got a girl next time around as it will be our last child and the fact of my son having a little brother will dwindle to nothing more than a pink frock! ..Trying to assure myself that it could be totally different to me isn't working at all
Im sorry for the waste of a topic i just needed to get it all down and out before i drive myself crazy!