Hi Lynda. I wish I had a positive story for you, but like you, I've also had 2 mcs. I'm also scared, but I try to remain positive and hopeful. I know that many women have multiple losses and go on to have a healthy baby. Unfortunately for us, the innocence of pregnancy has been lost. We will always carry around our previous trauma. The best we can do is to look at each new pregnancy as just that...a new pregnancy. It doesn't necessarily have any connection to our other pregnancies and losses. Just because we lost the other ones doesn't mean we'll have the same fate with new ones. Have you had labs done? If not, you should have your doctor do blood work to see if there is any connection to your losses. Once you can rule that out, it is easier to think that maybe your losses were not connected in any way. If they do find something, chances are, they can address the issue so that you won't go through another loss. I know for me, arming myself with as much knowledge as I can about my body has helped me to move forward in this terrifying and exciting journey. So far, all of my tests and DH's tests have been normal. They have told me it is bad luck. At some point I'm bound to have some good luck and I believe we all will.
xoxo
