SCH pelvic rest - NO SEX for 6 more weeks!!!

[trxridr]

I am a very open person and just want to know if anyone else has expierenced this I appoligize if this is tmi for anyone

ok ladies I just got back from the doctor and they said everything looks good and I heard the babies heartbeat but because of a small probable SCH I have been on pelvic rest (no sex) for the past 2 weeks, and I have been going crazy!! and now she told me that I still have to wait until Im 16 weeks. And not only can I not have sex she said NO orgasms by any method whatsoever. I know its selfish of me to want to still be able to have sex but my hormones are driving me crazy, and I have read online that some doctors dont even put you on pelvic rest for SCH. Has anyone else had SCH and wasnt put on pelvic rest, or has anyone been put on pelvic rest for another reason and still orgasmed (by penetration or not) and things still go ok??

 

[theresarhuebb]

whats sch? x

 

[Remucar]

Im 12 weeks today and I havent been able to have sex at ALL during the whole time. I doubt they will give me the green light anytime soon as I keep spotting here and there.
It is hard, but deffinetly well worth it!!

 

[RKW]

Hi, I'm only 6+2 but avoiding it anyway. I normally have a high appetite but I just am so worried I won't risk it. After 13 weeks he Weill be allowed my flower again :0)

 

[trxridr]

SCH is subchorionic hemorage but im just struggling with this because my boyfriend isint very talkitive and being intimate is very important to me because it helps me feel loved. Also I was wondering if you other ladies still helped your man out or how it effected your relationship, I know this is a silly thing to be worried about but part of pregnancy is how it effects our relationship with are loved ones. me and my boyfriend have only been togther for 9 months but we really love each other and live together with my 10 and 8 yr old

 

[theresarhuebb]

ahh right ive never experienced this! to be honest with out sounding harsh! or nasty id be more worried about baby, if you both love each other enough youll bre strong enough to get through past 16wks and pick up from there you could still play with him but you are out of bounce! thers othere ways of showing love! cuddles just generally spending time together if its meant to be it will be the weeks will fly past honest! x

 

[LuvallmyH]

I have been on pelvic rest and yes it's no fun. Maybe you could just please your bf? Have you talked to him about what is going on? Even though they may not share, men do understand when you explain it to them.

 

[angela2011]

I have a small blood sac that is behind the baby and sac doctor didn't call it a SCH not sure what it is but they did not tell me to be on pelvic rest or say not to have sex. They just said they would watch it that it would most likely go away on its on but could cause some bleeding. So far no bleeding or problems and the baby looked great today but the blood sac was still there.

 

[pink32]

Yes I am also on Bed rest, no sex, no nothing! I have a Perigestational Hematoma (small amount of blood behind the sac of the baby) so just waiting it out and hoping it heels itself..no bleeding yet...Good luck to all that has the same or similar Xox

 

[Dibbles]

I understand your concern about your relationship, and I think it's a valid concern. I've found just being held and kissed and touched fills a similar 'feel loved' gap as sex, you will still be horny at the end of it though but that's another story lol.

As for your SO you can get him off in other ways, now would be a fun time to experiment

HTH ^.^

 

[trxridr]

If I really thought it was dangerous to have sex i wouldnt even be considering it, and as angela2011 said she is going thro same thing and didnt get put on pelvic rest, thats what I was really wanting to know, I have researched it and some docs put you on pelvic rest and some dont for SCH and when my doctor was talking to me she said the no sex was just a precatiounary messure because the sch was small and only probable. I kno most of you think why risk it but if thats the case and I just shouldnt do anything that some people say could harm the baby like, drinking caffiene, wearing my seatbelt, jogging etc then pregnant women should just lock themselves in padded rooms. I guess maybe some of you dont understand what i mean, im so horny all the time (i remember this from my previous pregnancys too) that it is physically uncomfortable and like i said in the original post the doc said no masturbating either, i just think that is taking it a little far, I would be fine without having actual sex (penetration) cuz me and my boyfriend are very creative with toys and such but seriously i cant control how horny I am and to be told i cant masturbate even i think is a little extreme for something that some doctors dont even put you on pelvic rest for

 

[hopingforit]

I had a small SCH which caused a bit of bleeding then had a bit more bleeding after the SCH went away. I was advised by 2 Drs to be on pelvic rest until 12 weeks although my DH and I already made the decision before I got BFP that we will do no sex until after the babies are born. Hopefully after 16 weeks, they allow you off it.