Second FS appointment on 2nd November scared and nerves

[Becci_Boo86]

i have my second appointment with my FS on 2nd November at 11.20am. I'm really nerves and scared cos i dont think he will do anything.

we have been ttc since last april. i have had 1 MMC and 2 MC's since we started ttc.

I have PCOS and a bicornuate uterus. All i have had done is a scan to check my PCOS and thats when they said i could have a bicornuate uterus. i was in shock cos i didnt know what this meant or anything.

I just wanted to know what happens at the second appointment? should i get more tests done etc...??

all i want is a baby and i'm finding it hard to cope cos i find i'm not getting the help i should be getting.

can anyone help me put my mind at ease please

thanks xx

 

[PR&TR13]

Becci- I'm not sure I could answer your question because I think everyone is different and every FS is different. I've only gone to my FS 3 times. 1st was inicial meeting and order test. 2nd HSG test & 3rd actual surgery (Lap & Dye) and this coming Monday is going to be the 4th visit to discuss how surgery went & next steps. All this in 2 months.

One thing that I always do is keep a sheet of paper in my purse and any time I think of a question I write it down. I even ask for time frame!!! Yes he probably thinks I'm crazy but I want to be sure I ask everything bc it's hard to get a hold of him after & I don't want to forget or torment myself afterwards. It is so easy to forget when he starts talking and starts telling you thing that you will forget the questions you wanted to ask in the first place!!!!

I say start to write down your questions and ask next tuesay all you can wish you the best of luck!!! And I hope that you start getting answers

 

[Sbee]

Sorry Becci, can't help answer any of your questions but I hope everyone goes ok for you on the 2nd Nov. If you don't get the answers you're looking for or its taking too long between appointments and any treatments have you thought about going private? I've heard many people on this site say how worth it it is. Good luck x