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[andbabymakes3]

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she's a very bossy woman and only wants things to be her way only...nothing is good enough for her. She thinks we should change the way we live because it's not good enough (long story)..
me and oh've been together for over 7 years and years after he talked to her many times not to interfere with us , now i realize things are not going to change, it's just not an option in this family
basically she has cancer and everyone wants to keep her happy so she just does whatever she likes and she controls everyone's life
she visits us 4-5 times a year and stays with us 1 month at each time. I told oh that i never feel comfortable to have her in the house because of what she's like but he seems to have to power to do anything and she only tells us when she's coming after she booked the flight
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Do you think the fact that she has cancer may have something to do with her behaviour? Perhaps she is scared? Trying to see her son/grandchild as much as poss because she is concerned she wont be around for long? Angry at what is happening to her and doesn't know how to express it? Lots of things to think about if she is suffering with cancer.

 

[xJG30]

From finding out he was going to be a dad, he was all for it.. then he spent a week at mine when I was 15 weeks gone, I felt shit and just didn't have the energy to do owt and he ended it a week later.

 

[sleepinbeauty]

I left FOB when I found out he was posing as a glamour photographer on bebo and trying to get topless pics from underage girls. There's more, but thats the gist of it.

WHOA. Did you report him?! Holy crap!


To the mamas who got left BECAUSE they were mamas: *HUGS* They don't deserve to know the joy of your children anyway.

 

[Monkeh]

I left FOB when I found out he was posing as a glamour photographer on bebo and trying to get topless pics from underage girls. There's more, but thats the gist of it.

WHOA. Did you report him?! Holy crap!

Yeah he's currently under investigation, and the police still have my laptop (which he was using). It's been well over a year now though. Wish I had it back!

 

[missmisty4]

Me and my ex broke up bc I wanted the baby and he didn't. He came home drunk one night and it ended in domestic violence and him going to jail, haven't spoken with him since that night and I now have a restraining order.