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Hi, not sure if any parents out there can relate or advise, but my son has his own little quirks and a good friend of mine suggested I look in to this condition.
I read up but it is very long and complex and has soooo many sections so not sure where to start
Basically my 2.5yr old has always had adversions to mess on him, hands, face, arms etc he is the cleanest toddler I know for eating lol but when he does get food or juice on him thats it he wants washing and the food taken away. He will also strip off his clothes at the smallest spillage or dirt mark (if he knows its there). He has also started putting food/drink in his mouth and holding it there... for ages sometimes! If he is drinking, particulary milk, he will hold it in his mouth until I tell him to swallow it and then he often swallows, sometimes spits it out. It doesnt seem to be a particular texture - he will do it with chewy things, liquid, weetabix, raisins, freshfruit etc etc Nursery said he does itthere as well as at home!
He also has started walking on his tippy toes, and constantly stripping, even when not wet (though he really hates a wet top and will take that off anywhere!!! his fruit shoot splashed when he took it out of his mouth whilst in an arena at weekend, it barely left a mark but he paniced and stripped )
He has an irrational fear of some noises, but not all. He fears unknown noises, so if a truck drives passed him he'll wave and laugh, if that truck is say behind himor he hears from the window he will panic and scream and hide He gets very upset at loud noises.
He hates messy play and refuses to join in at home or nursery... he will play with a paint brush but not hand/foot prints etc
Now all these things appear on the SPD website... but so do loads of other things that Im sure he doesnt have or do! I mean there was something there about touch... sometimes they freak out at gentle touch etc George does this - but I am sure its just his toddler ways. He seems to socialise well he plays with some children and not others. His speech is perfectly fine for his age, as is his other developmental areas. He is majorly switched on, only needs to see something done once and he can do it!!
Oh something else I read on the SPD site was he runs and charges about like a loon lol and he will hit his head on solid objects on purpose He also licks everything, floors, walls, people, clothes
I cant think of anything else he matched up on the site, but Im notthe type of person to google and self diagnose, but I have neglected to worry about any of his little quirks and put them all down to being a toddler with too much energy. I used to laugh at the 'OCD' tendancies (as we call them) as I thought it was cute - though now its getting out of control. The holding food in mouth I put down to teething, but he has cut his last 4 molars now. I just wondered if anyone had similar experience and if you think its worth a discussion with his HV (who is lovely but my gawd dippy!!!) or a GP???
Sorry this is long and probably a bit all over Im just trying to remember all his little quirks that have always been individual and Ive never pulled them together before xxxx
I read up but it is very long and complex and has soooo many sections so not sure where to start
Basically my 2.5yr old has always had adversions to mess on him, hands, face, arms etc he is the cleanest toddler I know for eating lol but when he does get food or juice on him thats it he wants washing and the food taken away. He will also strip off his clothes at the smallest spillage or dirt mark (if he knows its there). He has also started putting food/drink in his mouth and holding it there... for ages sometimes! If he is drinking, particulary milk, he will hold it in his mouth until I tell him to swallow it and then he often swallows, sometimes spits it out. It doesnt seem to be a particular texture - he will do it with chewy things, liquid, weetabix, raisins, freshfruit etc etc Nursery said he does itthere as well as at home!
He also has started walking on his tippy toes, and constantly stripping, even when not wet (though he really hates a wet top and will take that off anywhere!!! his fruit shoot splashed when he took it out of his mouth whilst in an arena at weekend, it barely left a mark but he paniced and stripped )
He has an irrational fear of some noises, but not all. He fears unknown noises, so if a truck drives passed him he'll wave and laugh, if that truck is say behind himor he hears from the window he will panic and scream and hide He gets very upset at loud noises.
He hates messy play and refuses to join in at home or nursery... he will play with a paint brush but not hand/foot prints etc
Now all these things appear on the SPD website... but so do loads of other things that Im sure he doesnt have or do! I mean there was something there about touch... sometimes they freak out at gentle touch etc George does this - but I am sure its just his toddler ways. He seems to socialise well he plays with some children and not others. His speech is perfectly fine for his age, as is his other developmental areas. He is majorly switched on, only needs to see something done once and he can do it!!
Oh something else I read on the SPD site was he runs and charges about like a loon lol and he will hit his head on solid objects on purpose He also licks everything, floors, walls, people, clothes
I cant think of anything else he matched up on the site, but Im notthe type of person to google and self diagnose, but I have neglected to worry about any of his little quirks and put them all down to being a toddler with too much energy. I used to laugh at the 'OCD' tendancies (as we call them) as I thought it was cute - though now its getting out of control. The holding food in mouth I put down to teething, but he has cut his last 4 molars now. I just wondered if anyone had similar experience and if you think its worth a discussion with his HV (who is lovely but my gawd dippy!!!) or a GP???
Sorry this is long and probably a bit all over Im just trying to remember all his little quirks that have always been individual and Ive never pulled them together before xxxx