Hello! First of, sorry for everyones losses..
I've written so many posts in the past few days.. but i can now officially post on this one and i can not believe i am back on this forum 3 years later! I thought I would not have another miscarriage after a healthy pregnancy! I don't know why!
So, i wasnt officially ttc but somehow we ended up pregnant.. I was very overwhelmed and shocked!! I did not feel pregnant at all or get any of the symptoms.. Anywho, yesterday (sadly on my birthday) I started bleeding.. I went to er as i was very concerned.. The bleeding was more of spotting but kinda seemed like a first day of period.. (only 5w5d btw, so if i hadn't tested i would've thought it was just a very late period).. I havent cramped since i had my first child (about two years and 4 months ago).. In the er they did some blood tests and told me that my Hcg is low.. and should take test in two days..
I didnt like the dr in the er as i was telling her i'm bleeding but she seemed careless.. So today, i went to another dr and told her everything (as the bleeding increased) she asked for more blood work and hcg have increased slightly in 13 hours since my last test but she said the only way to know if it's increasing properly is in 48 hours.. I called her in the afternoon telling her that now i am having cramps and bleeding more and passed small clots.. She asked me to rest and let my body work it's ways and come in tomorrow unless i'm bleeding too much and clotting then should go to ER rightaway..
I am fine now.. Just bleeding and minor clots like a heavy period! My first miscarriage was much worse cuz i was much farther along.. I am just concerned about infections.. ANyone knows when to go on the antibiotics? Well, the dr told me not to start them till she confirms miscarriage but i feel i'm done
I just don't want any complications in the future.. I have cried quite few times yesterday..but today i went in with a strong heart.. I think it helped that i havent had any scans so i wasnt as attached as i was with my first bean
We probably won't ttc soon! But this experience actually had me wanting to get pregnant again soon
Hopefully soon we will have our healthy pregnancies that we wish for and healthy babies..
xox