Hi everyone, just wanted a bit of advice please...
We haven't been having a lot of sex all pregnancy, I never regained my libido in second tri and nothing has changed now that I'm third tri. I think pregnancy hasn't exactly been a big turn-on for either of us, and I feel self conscious with my belly. But I miss the closeness with my partner and so have initiated a couple of times. But it hurts! Like a burning. I'm going to ask my ob today if I might have thrush or a uti (with no other symptoms), otherwise maybe it really is just a lack of lube due to psychologically not feeling very sexy any more.
I feel really worried that we will never get our great sex life back as things are only going to get more difficult with a baby and with my ladyparts potentially not being quite the same...! (I don't know much about how that goes after birth)
Any support or understanding would be most welcome!
We haven't been having a lot of sex all pregnancy, I never regained my libido in second tri and nothing has changed now that I'm third tri. I think pregnancy hasn't exactly been a big turn-on for either of us, and I feel self conscious with my belly. But I miss the closeness with my partner and so have initiated a couple of times. But it hurts! Like a burning. I'm going to ask my ob today if I might have thrush or a uti (with no other symptoms), otherwise maybe it really is just a lack of lube due to psychologically not feeling very sexy any more.
I feel really worried that we will never get our great sex life back as things are only going to get more difficult with a baby and with my ladyparts potentially not being quite the same...! (I don't know much about how that goes after birth)
Any support or understanding would be most welcome!