OK, I am just gonna say it... I have been a total HORNDOG this pregnancy and consider it to be nature's cruel joke since I am too big to do anything about it. LOL
I could count how many times I had sex during my pregnancy with my daughter. I was super sick in the 1st trimester, then it got weird after that... I did not "feel" sexual by any means. I explained to my hubby and gave him a free porn pass "just this once" but he never used it (as far as I know). I also had an awful delivery which made sex after birth feel like losing my virginity again... something I didn't even want to feel the first time. Needless to say we went a loooong time without sex and I didn't miss it one bit.
But this time around I look like an elephant charging my husband across the room and the poor guy still considers me beautiful. He politely asked that we stop around 27 weeks because I seemed "fragile" to him... whatever.
I say listen to your body, go with the flow, but don't be offended if it freaks the hubby out a little... I know men are supposed to consider us Goddess' during this time of our lives, but honestly... how sexy can we really be when we are bitching from the couch, eating everything in sight, crying without warning and sticking our swollen, purple feet and Wooly Mammoth legs in their faces so they can rub them?
Keepin' it real, girl... keepin' it real.