MoonLove
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I had my son nearly 4 weeks ago and had a natural labour and got a 2nd degree tear from my perineum right up to my labia. It has healed nicely and many of the stitches came out a week and a half ago, when i wiped, on the toilet paper.
I just wondered, do you think if i was to have sex now at 4 weeks PP, it would risk tearing the tear back open? My labia has healed perfectly and i can hardly see it, but you can see the big split down my perineum. I fear sex would just split that right open!
We'e been 'sexual' everyday for the past two weeks - we just can't have sex and it's driving me insane! I am waiting on my 6 week checkup at the doctors, i figure six weeks is a good amount of time to wait for it to all heal, but looking online, many women say 'until you feel ready' - i FEEL ready and my bits are looking good - but obviously i'm scared to rip the tear right open again! It looks like it would just split right open and it makes me cringe to think about!
In all honestly, i'll most likely wait til 6 weeks, i'd resent having to get restitched if anything bad did happen
Just wondered what your experiences are with 2nd degree tears & sex. Mine hurt sosososo much in the first couple weeks, and while it is still slightly tender in the area surrounding the perineum, it's feeling so much better than it was and i am happy with how it is healing. Arghh, slowest 6 weeks EVER!
Also! Did you wait for the bleeding to stop? Mine is very light, I keep thinking its totally stopped but small amounts keep coming!
I just wondered, do you think if i was to have sex now at 4 weeks PP, it would risk tearing the tear back open? My labia has healed perfectly and i can hardly see it, but you can see the big split down my perineum. I fear sex would just split that right open!
We'e been 'sexual' everyday for the past two weeks - we just can't have sex and it's driving me insane! I am waiting on my 6 week checkup at the doctors, i figure six weeks is a good amount of time to wait for it to all heal, but looking online, many women say 'until you feel ready' - i FEEL ready and my bits are looking good - but obviously i'm scared to rip the tear right open again! It looks like it would just split right open and it makes me cringe to think about!
In all honestly, i'll most likely wait til 6 weeks, i'd resent having to get restitched if anything bad did happen
Just wondered what your experiences are with 2nd degree tears & sex. Mine hurt sosososo much in the first couple weeks, and while it is still slightly tender in the area surrounding the perineum, it's feeling so much better than it was and i am happy with how it is healing. Arghh, slowest 6 weeks EVER!
Also! Did you wait for the bleeding to stop? Mine is very light, I keep thinking its totally stopped but small amounts keep coming!