SH*T!! I have to delay my IVF Plan!!!

[strawberry199]

President just announce that our company will shut down!
I have to delay my IVF plan for at least 6 months!!
I have to work till June 09 and if i manage to get a new job in July, the probation period normally is 3 months...

So, IVF have to be delay at least 6 months!!
Arrggghh!!!!

 

[maz]

Oh no ... I'm sorry to hear that hun. The six months are going to absolutely fly in - just you watch ... and then you'll get your and be preggers for crimbo!!!

 

[Jkelmum]

Is there no way of lookin for a job between now and then ?

 

[Aria]

Is there any way to get it started NOW before the company closes? I'm so sorry you may have to delay it.

In Malaysia, is this something that is covered by insurance?

 

[wannabmum]

So sorry to hear this huni, hope the time flies by for you

xxxxxx

 

[chefamy1122]

oh no!!! I am really sorry

 

[strawberry199]

no, there's is no insurance cover for this..
i'm looking for job now..
but there're many multinational company having retrenchment..
there're over two thousand jobless people looking for job in my state...
Holy SH*T!
I just want to have my precious little one...
why is so hard for me? when i'm a big step nearer, why the bad things just appear and block my way??!!

and i can't be jobless to continue my plan due to my expenses on my IVF journey...

arrggghhh!

 

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[Aria]

there're over two thousand jobless people looking for job in my state...

Sounds like here. This area has almost 7 million people (not the state, just this small section of the state), and over 10% of those are getting money for the government because they lost their jobs. But there are almost twice that who are jobless. Yeah, close to 150,000 jobless people right in this area alone. There are about 500,000 people in this state without jobs. It's terrible.

Holy SH*T!
I just want to have my precious little one...
why is so hard for me? when i'm a big step nearer, why the bad things just appear and block my way??!!

*HUGS* I understand. It's frustrating seeing people who don't care jack shit about their kids popping them out left and right. It's NOT fair.

 

[maz]

Good luck with the job hunting ... I hope you find one very soon. Do you have to wait to leave your current job until June, or can you go as soon as you find another one?

 

[CurlySue]

It really does suck when things like this happen, when things out of our control put back our plans. Could you not take the six months and do something nice for yourself? Pamper yourself. Forget about TTC. Give yourself a mental break from it so you are fresh and ready to go again in half a year?

 

[wrightywales]

sorry to hear that..... hope https://www.babyandbump.com/images/smilies/hugs2.gifu sort it out soon and get bk on track