shocked by comments

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  1. twinkletoes

    twinkletoes Well-Known Member

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    as many of you know, my dd had a scan today. well when i was sat in the ultrasound waiting area i was surrounded by pregnant women. and 1 of them said something to me that both shocked and upset me. heres the jist of the converstation:

    lady(looking at my dd): awww shes cute, how old is she?
    me: 8months
    lady: god you are fu*king stupid
    me: excuse me?
    lady: having another baby so close to your daughter. havnt you heard of contraception!
    me: im not here for a scan for myself
    lady:u must be, its ultrasound and you have a bump
    me: my dd is actaully having a kidney scan not that its any of your business!
    lady: whatever, i still think you look pregnant!

    :shock: :shock: :shock: how fooking rude :shock: :shock: :shock:
     
  2. Steph

    Steph Well-Known Member

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    should've told her she didnt look pregnant she just looked fat
     
  3. Wobbles

    Wobbles WoBbLeWoBbLe
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    See I'd have said that too but then again it would depend if she was on the chubby side - You would look daft if she was a slim minnie :lol:
     
  4. Steph

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    I'd have said it anyway....or "Hope you need 34 stitches"
     
  5. Dionne

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    i got asked all the time after having Harley when it was due :cry:
    but he was only a few days old and i was out with Just Dior so i was fat and no new baby. still i used to get soooooo embarressed. kris used to go more red for me though. but still no one was rude about it. just sked me then ild say :cry: i have just had a little boy :cry:
     
  6. twinkletoes

    twinkletoes Well-Known Member

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    she was pregnant, and clutching her notes. lol
     
  7. Dionne

    Dionne Well-Known Member

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    should have told her you felt sorry that a newborn had a mummuy like that to have to look at and if he child dont sleep at night its because its having nightmares about that monster mug of hers.
     
  8. Steph

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    Even better, she'd have been so offended if someone told her she didn't look pregnant!

    What a cheeky bitch!
     
  9. Lauz_1601

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    OMG I cant believe some people can be soooo fucking rude! I dont know what Id have said, Id have wanted to give her a mouthful but Im too quiet!
     
  10. Steph

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    haha good one Dionne....come on we'll go sort her out!
     
  11. Jo

    Jo I'm an old bag!

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    :shock: I can't belive the cheeky bitch said that!!!!
    Even if you were PG wtf did it have to do with her??????

    I would have been so angry but prob gobsmaked at the same time!!!
     
  12. sophie

    sophie Mum of 2 pg with no3!

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    :shock: some people need a good slapping! i for one would not be the one giving it ide be to scared :lol:
    x
     
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    I agree with Sophie think I'd have got up & slapped her or tempted to anyway :D
     
  14. Tootsie

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    I soo would have given her a mouth full too, I would have made it so the whole waiting room knew what she said :twisted: And then i would have slated her a bit too. Coz i'm evil and cant stand it when people engage their gobs before thei brain :roll:
     
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    That is terrible :twisted:
     
  16. gaby

    gaby Married, but not ttc

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    what's wrong with having another baby after a year anyway? i think a year apart is plenty :roll: still, ttc #1 here so what do i know ^_^;

    I can't believe she said that though! how rude!
     
  17. Sarah_N_Braydon

    Sarah_N_Braydon Well-Known Member

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    id have gone bonkers how dare she speak to u like that :twisted:
     
  18. twinkletoes

    twinkletoes Well-Known Member

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    i dnt think theres anything wrong with it hun. its just some small minded big mouthed bitch shooting her gob off.

    good luck with ttc x
     
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  20. Yummy Mummy Nat

    Yummy Mummy Nat Lennon's Mummy

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    If she wasn't pregnant I would have lamped her. If people can't say anything nice they shouldn't say anything at all :roll:

    Hugs to you hun
     

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