Should I let him join in? **UPDATED - PG3**

[Ash_P]

Got a text from him this morning. He said he`d love to go and is looking forward to it. So looks like we are going together.
Maybe my impatience is a problem too, fingers crossed it goes ok without arguing and crossed words, for babies sake.
Im so excited about picking my pram, just worried about what im gonna talk to him about. Only so much I can say about a baby that aint hear yet lol

 

[purpledahlia]

well good luck, let us know how it goes!

 

[teal]

Good luck going to pick the pram together

 

[leeanne]

Good luck and I hope it goes well. Please remember that the problems are between you and him, not baby and him. Sad thing is, when you have a child with someone, that person, if they want to be involved, will be in your life forever. If you can start a civil relationship and perhaps move on to be friends later on, the better for your child. I also hope he means it when he says he wants to be involved and that he stays involved.

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah, i hope he replied himself and wants to go, and hope his mum didnt call him and give him an earfull. Then he would be going for the wrong reasons. good luck!! ( p.s Icandy cherry - FAB )

 

[Ash_P]

So much for going to look at prams togather. Iv had it, I seriously cant take anymore. Im trying my best to involve him, be civil, and as nice as possible. Im not snapping at him (as much as I would like to) Im not being cheeky, I dont hound the life outta him with messages, calls etc.

We were meant to be going at 11 today to look at prams, But he text me to tell me him has to go out this afternoon and didnt have time!

Its a shame that picking his childs pram is such a hassle and takes up too much of his personal life.
Im not a devious person, and i hate to wish bad on people, I believe that everyone gets what they deserve in due course, god forgive me for saying this (its the bitterness coming out) but the palmist I seen told me he was going to lose his house, car and was gonna have his heart broken. (hes mum later told me hes going bankrupt, so its looking likely hes gonna loss everything)

I feel like a bitch for sayin this, but he deserves to fall flat on his face.

 

[lou_w34]

Dont feel bad for feeling like that, i think we all do at some point, so its not just you

And im so sorry he didnt come, i was hoping he would, even if was only for his mums sake. Have you told his mum yet?

Its a shame, he doesnt no what he's missing out on, but dont worry about him, your baby has you and thats enough!

 

[lilyd]

Really sorry that he's let you down again. At least you know that you did everything you could (and more) to involve him.

It sounds as though he has a lot of growing up to do and needs to learn where his priorities should be.

Try not to let this stop you enjoying choosing your pram - at least you don't have to take his opinion into account anymore!!

 

[purpledahlia]

oh dear, hes obv not worth it you have given him chances now. Did you go and choose a pram anyway? will you go tomorrow? you should, let him see he has missed his chance, dont even contact him. Let his mum tell him you chose and its been ordered and he will feel gutted to have missed out, or he should do. hugs! x

 

[Ash_P]

I already know the pram I want, but to seem like a better and more mature person I thought well taking him will involve him and possibly make him realise theres gonna be a baby in just over 3 months. So much for that. He a plonker!!
My MIL and I are going to go and let me push the pram and see how easy it is to get it down and up and also for space for the car, but it looks easy enough, so all being well, get the deposit down and get it ordered.
I should really pick the most ridiculous colour invented lol although im not that petty.

 

[purpledahlia]

what pram are you after? x

 

[needausername]

 

[Ash_P]

I`m liking the Mothercare Spin. It looks easy enough for me to manage, although i could hate it when i push it lol will soon find out tho x

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah go test them out