Should i?.....

[Cordelia07]

Me and OH have been trying for our first baby!

We have done the bd, and are now in the holding period! lol

According to my ov calculator i can test from monday! or tomorro!

i'm desperatly impatient and i really want to test! however OH wants to wait till the weekend as this is then past when af should have arrived!!

i want to test tomorrow, i think even if its a bfn i'll be ok cause i can try again at the weekend! i also thing part of me just wants to get it out my system and know something rather than knowing nothing!

Am i mental or does this make sense to anyone else????

xx

 

[Lily7]

it makes absolute sense! lol when is your af due?

 

[Cordelia07]

af is due on friday the 6th!

 

[Lily7]

Oh I know exactly how you feel, I don't want to influence you in any way!!!! If you can, then try to wait until Friday (because that is the sensible most logical option!! lol), but I have to admit, if it was me I probably wouldn't!! good luck!

 

[KaiAlexander]

hi i am Cordelia07's OH, thanks for your help on this, i know how she feels but i just think that if we try early and its negative it will have an adverse effect on the rest of the week...

Not sure if mine makes any more sense than hers did

 

[Lily7]

LOL I know exactly how both of you feel! My Husband is so like you Kai and deep down I know he is right!! I am so bad at wanting to test all the time, we have never gotten a BFP yet and I know how your OH feels because she sounds so like me, I tell myself it doesn't even matter if it says BFN because it would be because it is too early and I will just test again on Fri etc but just what if??

I know I am not much help to you guys but maybe its just reassuring to know other people out there are experiencing the same feelings!

Good luck to both of you, let me know how you;s get on FX

 

[Lily7]

P.S. yes it still does make you feel crappy seeing a BFN at any time

 

[Cordelia07]

well i didnt test in then end. Going to wait till the weekend!!

Thank god i'm busy at work to keep me occupied! lol

 

[Lily7]

Good on you for holding off! Good Luck for the weekend