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Hi girls, im new here but have lurked for a while I wondered if i could ask for some advice from you please! Im in a bit of a funny situation now, i live with my h2b and we've been together for 5 years and have our wedding planned for 2012 (date set but not much else yet!) We agreed to start ttc this year and after a bumpy few months chatted to h2b last night and im not convinced that hes ready yet so have decided to stop trying for a while, i feel so flat i was so excited, but did notice weve argued so much lately which isnt like us so think it may be the right thing to wait. His Mum has the opinion that we should be married first and i think it may be influencing him a bit as they do talk a lot, she and his family are usually fantastic but have been quite funny with us lately since starting to try for a LO. We were both so excited to start trying, but with every month its gone a little and especially with his mums funny comments about being married, i want to be married but to me having a house and a little family is so important and i dont mind which way round is there anything i can do???? thanks very much for readingX