Shuffling in to LTTTC.....

[Lady H]

Hey Lady H, as others have said sorry you've had to come over here but sometimes it's easier to talk to people over here. The 35+ group is fab but it's hard being there & seeing people come & go with BFPs while we're still sitting there babyless.

I've just shuffled out of my hole - I realised I'd been hiding in my journal for months & months & felt I needed to get out & talk to some other LTTTCers as I'm going a bit mad in there!

Thanks Twinks, I can understand the hiding part, I've been tempted as sometime BnB does add more stress, unintentionally off course.

 

[HappyAuntie]

Hi LadyH - I am so sorry for not noticing this earlier and welcoming you properly. Like Twinks, I've been hiding in my journal for a while, too. Moving over here is a step no one ever wants to take, but as others have said there comes a time when you realize you fit in better with these ladies than anyone else, and there is tremendous comfort to be found in that.

 

[moose31]

so I have been lurking around LTTC threadslately but read a comment on TTC/TWW forum that has solidified my jump...If i read one more BFP announcement followed by "you just need to relax and not try so hard b/c it worked for me" ugh that phrase should be outlawed on BnB ......oh its that simple jeez why havent I tried that! (<-- sarcasim) LOL sorry for the rant!!!!!

 

[Lady H]

Hi Moose I'm right with you Hun. I've never had a bfp in over a year of trying. Xx

 

[diliapickle]

I agree I am tired of hearing just relax! I finally told me mom since we have to do IVF and been trying over a year and she said oh just stop meds and relax it will just happen... I almost screamed!

 

[Lady H]

Temps are dropping so looks like I am out. I will be 40 on the 21st June and really wanted to be pregnant by then, only tried 14 months FFS! Don't want to give up CBFM just yet but went back to temping this month. Going to stop that and just do CBFM again. Hubby been waiting over three month for his SA as his doctors keep messing up booking him in. Seems something is trying to tell us to give up, and to be frank, I have.

 

[Sizzles]

Hi Lady H! Sorry to hear it doesn't look like your month again; you're not out until the fat lady sings though! I sympathise completely as I've not had so much of a hint of a bfp in over 2 years of trying. For something new this month, I'm trying the cbfm as it has good reviews, though I'm gathering it's not been successful for you.