I know people mean well when they say "be thankful you have one" but dammit, I'm tired of hearing it!! Whether or not I have more kids I will ALWAYS be thankful for my son period, considering he was a preemie and everything else for God's sake. Sometimes I think people really are stupid I know they mean well but come on. I love my son dearly and could never imagine him not in my life, and OF COURSE I am thankful for him, and no I can't explain why I want more children, I just feel that need that women get at a certain time in their lives, call it maternal or whatever. Grrr. Sorry, rant over, just that someone said that to me yesterday (again) and it's been festering.