very useful information but i knew most of it as my mum's very thoughtful on things and she gave me millions of advices that even books can't tell.
Hey there, im just ttc my 2nd child at the moment so not having to think about this at the moment but I have found it very informative...and Its good to have information from someone who knows so much about it too. I personally would never have my baby sleeping in the same bed as me. I didnt do it with my daughter> I don't smoke or drink but it just isnt a risk worth taking. Childs safety has to come first
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Thanks for all the information Olivia![]()
I have a question... what do you mean by overdressing the baby?? How much is too much to put on a newborn. Im terrified of SIDS![]()
I don't want to throw a spanner in the works, I'm a first timer so have no experience, but I thought SIDS was unexplained death in a child and they often don't know what happened. Or have I got that all wrong? I just think how can we mums prevent something we ultimately have no control over? Surely its the same as trying to stop our 3 year old from developing leukimea? I'm not saying I won't be following all these pointers, because I will. It just makes me worry that I bet there are Mums, even here on BnB, who have lost a child to SIDS even though they followed best practice guidelines because SIDS is unexplained and we ultimately have no control over it?
I don't want to throw a spanner in the works, I'm a first timer so have no experience, but I thought SIDS was unexplained death in a child and they often don't know what happened. Or have I got that all wrong? I just think how can we mums prevent something we ultimately have no control over? Surely its the same as trying to stop our 3 year old from developing leukimea? I'm not saying I won't be following all these pointers, because I will. It just makes me worry that I bet there are Mums, even here on BnB, who have lost a child to SIDS even though they followed best practice guidelines because SIDS is unexplained and we ultimately have no control over it?
Yup I do think you have a point in that you could do everything "right" and it's still not totally preventable. Very true!
There was a time when very little was known about SIDS but as time goes on, they learn more and more. The tips aren't a "cure" for SIDS but they are preventative measures to take to give your child the best chance...if that makes sense. There is a level of control in some situations.
I CERTAINLY mean no offense to anyone who sadly had to endure something like that. But I would imagine that everyone would be a proponent for at least TRYING to take the best precautions out there. I totally understand that the "best" precautions is subjective for some people...but I think everyone wants to be as safe as they can be![]()
Hey ladies...I know some of this might be common knowledge, but I thought I would still share....
I am lucky enough that my mom is a SIDS prevention nurse and has helped me so much prepare for my daughter and make sure I take all the right precautions:
Here are some of the big ones....
1. No bumper in the crib! They might look cute but they are a SIDS hazard.
2. Avoid co sleeping. No sleeping on beds, couches, pillows etc. Babies should sleep on their back on a firm surface with no blankets, pillows, stuffed animals etc. Just a well fitted sheet!
3. Don't overdress a baby at night. Overheating can be dangerous for baby.
4. Breastfeed if possible
5. Keep infant away from second hand smoke.
6. Pacifiers are a good idea once breastfeeding has been established.
If anyone wants more info on any of these, I'd be happy to share it!
I hope no one gets offended by this post...I am not trying to tell anyone how to raise their child.
My mom explained to me that there are lots and lots of babies who could sleep on their tummies or co sleep etc and be perfectly fine. But there is no way to tell the difference between a baby who will be fine and a baby who will fall victim to SIDS so there is no reason to take unnecessary risks.
In the past 2.5 years in the county my mom works in, no baby has died from SIDS in their crib!! All the deaths have been on couches, beds, pillows, co sleeping situations etc.
Anyway, I hope no one thinks I am preaching. I just know we all love our babies and I hope everyone has healthy happy babies
Best wishes to EVERYONE!![]()
I don't want to throw a spanner in the works, I'm a first timer so have no experience, but I thought SIDS was unexplained death in a child and they often don't know what happened. Or have I got that all wrong? I just think how can we mums prevent something we ultimately have no control over? Surely its the same as trying to stop our 3 year old from developing leukimea? I'm not saying I won't be following all these pointers, because I will. It just makes me worry that I bet there are Mums, even here on BnB, who have lost a child to SIDS even though they followed best practice guidelines because SIDS is unexplained and we ultimately have no control over it?
Yup I do think you have a point in that you could do everything "right" and it's still not totally preventable. Very true!
There was a time when very little was known about SIDS but as time goes on, they learn more and more. The tips aren't a "cure" for SIDS but they are preventative measures to take to give your child the best chance...if that makes sense. There is a level of control in some situations.
I CERTAINLY mean no offense to anyone who sadly had to endure something like that. But I would imagine that everyone would be a proponent for at least TRYING to take the best precautions out there. I totally understand that the "best" precautions is subjective for some people...but I think everyone wants to be as safe as they can be![]()
I think a large part of the problem is that death by accidental suffication is often recorded as a case of SIDs.
SIDs guidlelines recommend no cot bumpers..but I have never seen proof taht the use of a cot bumper increases the risk of SIDs, only increasing the risk of accidental suffication.
I CERTAINLY mean no offense to anyone who sadly had to endure something like that. But I would imagine that everyone would be a proponent for at least TRYING to take the best precautions out there. I totally understand that the "best" precautions is subjective for some people...but I think everyone wants to be as safe as they can be![]()
Mrs. Leahy, it didn't say avoid 'secondhand smokers'... it was 'secondhand smoke'... so for example your husband should never ever smoke around baby, in the house, in the car, and even would do well to change clothes after smoking or protect his clothes and hair with some sort of smoking cover-up (a hoodie, jacket, etc...) and wash up very well after smoking.