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Hello all, just needed people to talk to. I am going through my second miscarriage and I thought I was coping fine, so much better than the last. My first was 6 years ago, a missed miscarriage. At my 12 week scan they found my baby - but he or she had sadly died at 9 weeks. I honestly think between then and now I've not really got over it but the second pregnancy felt like a second chance. Due to a bit of spotting we booked an early scan at 7 weeks 5 days. We were sent straight to hospital as they thought it was ectopic, it turned out it wasn't but only measuring 5 weeks, from a scan 2 days later we were told sac had grown but could only see fibres, no embryo. For the next 2 weeks waiting for a scan we accepted it was over and I was ready just to miscarry so we can TTC again. I was induced and miscarried on Saturday and it went fairly smoothly at home. We're moving so I've kept busy and felt pretty much OK. So...today we get a video call from my brother-in-law and sister-in-law. They're pregnant with their second child. They got worried after what happened to us so they had a scan today at 7 weeks 3 days. More or less the same time we found out we'd lost it. I'm floored my husband who has been so strong is in tears and there's nothing I can do as I feel exactly the same, I can't stop crying. Their due date is a month after ours too. Sorry for the essay just wondering if there is anyone else feeling the same.