Angel1990x
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Hi all,
i just wanted to get a quick rant of my chest about the silly to the down-right awful things people have said during or about my pregnancy. Feel free to add your own rants
The worst 2 comments ive had that have annoyed me was back at my second scan, which i had at 19 weeks because i was late booking in, my OHs family were desprate to know if it was a boy or girl and were all fighting over who would get told first ... anyway when we finally found out and told everyone we were meet with out right disappointment ... didn't even have the curtosy to just be quiet ... "oh a girl, oh well, next one will be a boy to carry on our family name ..."
I was so angry, i could speak to anyone for weeks without losing it.
the 2nd comment was after been told i "need" to do X, Y & Z just like the mother in law did .. *rolls eyes* she then told me that
"I will have the baby WHEN you can't cope ... its better shes with me anyway, as i know better than you what to do with new babies, you've never done this before!"
I can't even begin to explain how this made me feel, this is my first baby, shes not even here yet and I'm been judged already ...
other daft comments have included,
"When's the next one?/ surley you want a boy too?"
"Are you sure about that name?/ you'll change your mind when shes here!"
"Do you really wanna buy/do that, because i never did!"
"I will do X, Y & Z, because you won't know how!"
Most of the time i just wanna strangle someone, and i just needed to vent abit, anyone else suffered these sorts of comments? And if so how did you cope because all i wanna do is curl up and cry. Xx
i just wanted to get a quick rant of my chest about the silly to the down-right awful things people have said during or about my pregnancy. Feel free to add your own rants
The worst 2 comments ive had that have annoyed me was back at my second scan, which i had at 19 weeks because i was late booking in, my OHs family were desprate to know if it was a boy or girl and were all fighting over who would get told first ... anyway when we finally found out and told everyone we were meet with out right disappointment ... didn't even have the curtosy to just be quiet ... "oh a girl, oh well, next one will be a boy to carry on our family name ..."
I was so angry, i could speak to anyone for weeks without losing it.
the 2nd comment was after been told i "need" to do X, Y & Z just like the mother in law did .. *rolls eyes* she then told me that
"I will have the baby WHEN you can't cope ... its better shes with me anyway, as i know better than you what to do with new babies, you've never done this before!"
I can't even begin to explain how this made me feel, this is my first baby, shes not even here yet and I'm been judged already ...
other daft comments have included,
"When's the next one?/ surley you want a boy too?"
"Are you sure about that name?/ you'll change your mind when shes here!"
"Do you really wanna buy/do that, because i never did!"
"I will do X, Y & Z, because you won't know how!"
Most of the time i just wanna strangle someone, and i just needed to vent abit, anyone else suffered these sorts of comments? And if so how did you cope because all i wanna do is curl up and cry. Xx