Single again

[nay4701]

Well ladies I'm back to being single again! Feel lonely, let down and sad for my little girl. I know its all my fault and I should just be strong and not keep letting ex come back into our life's just fir him to treat us bad and me finish it again. I just wish I had the strength not to let him back into our life's but its so scary being single and I don't know why, I know i will be happier without him really in the long run, my little girl seems much happier in the last few months when he moved out, but i let him see her everyday and we sort of just agreed to go out etc bur moving out has not changed his behaviour towards me or her! He just makes me so sad and angry and it hurts that it appears he does not give a dam about our little girl!

How do u all get through it, I am afraid I will be on my own forever! Does the pain ever go away that your kids dad does not seem to care about them?

 

[AbbynChloe]

It gets better - it's been two years and i still feel hurt and angry - but better xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Groovychick]

 

[Vinushka]

My husband has seen the kids once, for an hour, in four weeks. He's more interested in his mates and his girlfriend and posting on facecrack about how miserable he is and how much he's drinking. He won't talk to me about them even... I know how you feel about the father not even caring about his kids or in some cases even using them as emotional blackmail.

 

[nay4701]

Thanks girls! I don't know how they can just forget about thier kids, all they wanna do is drink with thier mates, it's such a shame, if we did it they would call us bad mothers. Just got to be strong which is so hard sometimes. Why do we need let these idiots into our lives!

I'm now on antidepressants, hoping I can get some normallity back in me!

My ex admitted he had a drink problem but he was not gonna chance any time soon!! What did he expect me to just say that's fine carry on going to the pub 5 days out of 7, don't spend any time with ur kids, shout at us and call us names when u are here and spend all your money on drink!!! What an plonker! (nice way to put it lol)

Gonna try to find lots of things to do with little one keep me busy which should help? Any good ideas girls?

 

[xJG30]

 

[MummyJade]

Hey....

I kept going back to my ex who cared more for pub and mates... i finally walked out last year... and its the best thing i ever did... i never needed him nor did my daughter (hes not seen her since 1st may 11, but is taking me to court cos i stopped contact, when it was his mum!)

you wont be alone forever you will probs meet a few frogs but your prince will come along soon... xx