sleep in same bed or seperate rooms?

[Laura2919]

We have been together for 4 months. We will end up getting married in a year or two and I am not scared to propose to her. I would right now if I knew the timing was right. We have discussed that we are serious with each other. I don't want anyone else and either does she. I guess they say, when you meet the right one,, you just know.

Then if you know your serious and your not messing around you can explain to him why you sleep in Mummy's bed if that is something he would even ask.

 

[babytime1992]

We have been together for 4 months. We will end up getting married in a year or two and I am not scared to propose to her. I would right now if I knew the timing was right. We have discussed that we are serious with each other. I don't want anyone else and either does she. I guess they say, when you meet the right one,, you just know.

Well then congrats! I was assuming since you all had been dating for only 4 months maybe you guys hadn't reached "that point" in your relationship yet. In your case however, I think sleeping together is fine and if her boy asks just explain that sleeping together is what two people in love do

 

[singledadof4]

I know, isn't it crazy that after 4 months, it can be this real. I sometimes laugh to myself, how is this possible. How am I so connected to her, how can I be so emotionally attached to her. She feels the same way about me,, how is it possible that she is emotionally attached to me and she NEVER was this much attached with anyone else. She loves the fact, I can read right through her and support her emotionally. We will end up getting married.

I heard people get engaged within months and I can see why,,, however I am scared too. I heard people who got engaged in 4 to 5 months and now is celebrating their 25th wedding aniversary. I guess when you know and feel it's right,, you see a long road of happiness together.

So we did discuss sleeping in the same bed this coming weekend. My GF will talk with her son before Friday and tell him that Mike is mommy's boyfriend and no longer considered just a friend. My GF even told her ex husband that Mike is my boyfriend and will be around their son. I guess this was a deal they made with each other to let the other party know when someone serious comes into their life, they are to notify the other. So I will sleep with my GF this weekend and her son will sleep across the hall. Yes we will be quiet if we have sex ,,,, I can only imagine that conversation if her son catches us. I am sure she will not close her bedroom door on her son.