SMEP - Boy or Girl!

[sethsmummy]

I started this on another place and it got closed

so here goes again...hopefully people will see it in here.

ladies who used the SMEP method to conceive.. are you/did you have a boy or girl or boy/girl twins. Im paranoid this method means its defenitely going to be a boy (would still be loved but would love love love a girl)

 

[sethsmummy]

anybody? xx

 

[xloulabellex]

What does SMEP mean?

 

[sethsmummy]

its the sperm meets egg method

In order to ensure sperm and egg meet, you will “try” every other day starting on the eighth day of your cycle. The timing of this is based on how long sperm live, realistically a few days under ideal conditions. On the tenth day of your cycle you will begin daily testing with OPKs (ovulation prediction kits) and upon receiving a positive OPK you will “try” 3 more days in a row. Skip one day and give it one more try.

xx

 

[xloulabellex]

No I haven't, BUT will be trying to DTD up all the way up to 2/3 days before ovulation I think as i would like a little girl next time xx

 

[sethsmummy]

i hate they've moved everything gender related in here lol. I did have it in one of the other boards where it started getting answers but then they closed it

I really want a little girl to finish my family off and am seriously worried that iv no chance with dtd right the way up to o and after

oh well what will be will be. i can hope lol xx

 

[xloulabellex]

Hopefully one of the earlier female sperm from an early DTD got there first it got a head start so by the time you ovulated, it may have already reached the end zone before a male sperm got a chance

Got my fingers crossed for you I too am desperate for a little girl, this is our last child so will be my last chance (we are TTC next month so i'm eating lots of food 'supposedly' helps to get a little girly and will DTD from day 8 til couple days bedree O if due, and will keep my fingers crossed xx

 

[sethsmummy]

oh my gosh i think i love you haha why the hell didn't i think of that! You've just made my day lol.

 

[xloulabellex]

Hahah I unfortunately had gender dissapointment last pregnancy (to anyone reading this, wether you believe that exists or not, I did have it. and am not trying to start an argument) and I hate myself for it now as I ADORE my son sooo much he is my world.. but I too, really hope I get my little girl next time. So you're talking to the lady who knows how you're feeling

I hope you get your girlie hope you have a healthy and happy pregnancy regardless though can't wait to TTC and have a bump again

 

[sethsmummy]

thanks hun.. i would hope nobody would judge you! I know fine well im going to be a little disappointed if this is another boy.. thats why we are finding out through a scan if we can.. i want to have my sulk for a few days then get all excited again. Baby is going to be loved no matter what sex it is but i would really really love a girl to go with my two boys.

have you long before your going to be ttc again hun? xx

 

[xloulabellex]

Next month I believe is the plan eeeekkk

I've been googling non-stop how to concieve a girl and its driving me a bit barmy so going to try to stop googling lol! Have started a TTC Pink diet of all the foods supposedly help, and will try the correct timing too but what will be, will be

Not long til your 12wk scan how lovely! xx