So Angry

[mememe84]

Well today FOB came to see Lacie he lives 15 mins away an can only manage to come once a week. My friends brother dropped off a birthday cake as it was LO's birthday yest and I'm going for a meal tomorrow with family and friends, when he left FOB kicked off that I should of let him know I was having a party as she is his daughter an he should be told we argued an I told him to get out

But I don't see it this way am I wrong?

 

[Ceejay123]

If you didn't want him there, you didn't have to tell him... Especially if he only bothers to see his daughter once a week through choice! I know so many men that would kill to see their Lo's every day but can't! x

 

[mememe84]

If you didn't want him there, you didn't have to tell him... Especially if he only bothers to see his daughter once a week through choice! I know so many men that would kill to see their Lo's every day but can't! x

That's exactly what I think even his own mother tells me to stop letting him see her and tell him to take me to court but I've never stopped him. He saw her on her birthday but he's angry that I didn't let him know about said party, it feels like he wants me to update him on everything when she had a cold as a young baby he was angry cos I never told him I said well if it was serious I would let you know I'm not going to put my life on hold to update him x

 

[Ceejay123]

If he was that bothered he'd be there as much as he could Honey. About time he started treating the mother of his child with some respect.

 

[mememe84]

The thing is with him as much as you argue it's all about him always has been so it doesn't sink in. Feel so frustrated tonight and lots of pent up feelings could just cry x

 

[RaRalalala]

Totally wouldn't of invited or told him either! Sorry did he contribute in any way shape or form towards it? No, so he can bugger off!

I don't get men like that (including my fob) who don't bother to see their LO's

 

[Ceejay123]

If you need to talk to somebody sweetie feel free to PM me. Chin up. You're doing amazingly for your LO, Ignore him. You don't need a part time input! x

 

[mememe84]

I wouldn't mind If I asked for money for party but I done it all with my own money then cancelled it due to weather an decided to go for a meal x