I am a new single mum I have 3 kids (4,2 and 3 weeks) I have been with my ex 2 years and we have deffo had our ups and downs in the past spesh in the past 6 months . I am so confused though and wonder what other people make of this i will give you some background .In June last year we found out I was pregnant and we were both over the moon in August last year my ex went on anti depression tablets due to depression (doh i know) and he had alot of debt and decided to get a second job to sort it out and he seems to cheer up abit I became ill and spent alot of time in and out of hospital due to pains and high blood pressure ect . In December he cheated on me with a girl he worked with (i found out in jan) when I found out he begged me for a 2nd chance saying he still loved me and was in love with me he wanted to be a family it was all a mistake . I gave him a 2nd chance and drew a line in the sand and started to start a fresh things seem to get better even though there was alot of stuff outside the relationship that happened i.e i fell out with a few friends over him and he got alot of hassle from the woman's friends ect . I gave birth end of feb to a beautiful baby boy and i thought things couldn't get any better we went up to see his parents and everything seemed great he was talking about all of us moving up by his parents and a fresh start adpoting my other two kids , getting married (we were engaged for 1 1/2 years) as far as everyone was concerned things were getting back on track (i say everyone i mean myself , his parents , his friends ) . we came back and 2 days after being back to work he sat me down and told me he was moving out and that we were over . At 1st he was trying to hurry things up by getting me to change the benefits and stuff to say i am single and he even changed his status on fb to single i said i didnt want to rush things and live to regret the choices we were making . Well we still live together at the mo (he keeps saying he is looking at houses to move out thought i have seen no evidence of it ) we are still close he kisses and cuddles me and holds my hand and from time to time talks about things we can do together as a family i.e sorting about a better routine for the kids in the mornings , he still gives his parents the impression that we are trying to sort things out . I am so confused one min he sayz he doesnt love me and then the next min he is telling he does and showing me affection I will admit i still love him and we are each others best friend , his parents and friends keep telling me this is to do with his depression and he is just scared and lashing out and trying to run away but a part of me is worried its not that and that he has been a complete arse and has strung me along i dont know what to do 
